Do what makes you comfortable darlin, don't let anyone make you feel like you need to do something or don't need to do something. Always go with your gut. A mother always know what is best for her baby :) if they keep bothering you about it tell them that because you at new to motherhood, you would like to take care of your babes needs yourself. It's special to you and you appreciate the help, but just don't need it at the moment!

yeah, but his family...I just don't trust.. they won't get him while I'm gone or anything... they don't know right from wrong... @elismommy428

There's nothing wrong with it.. but I recommend, (and it's only a recommendation) to let people help you out a little bit, specially people he may spend time with in the future. just in case one day you can't be around for some reason, you want your baby to be as comfortable as he/she can be with other people, while you're gone😉

@aboutellesbabe,

I tried breast feeding for this one reason.. but I couldn't get comfy with it... :(

Exclusively breast feeding :) yea everyone on my boyfriends side of the family kept wanting me to pump all the time or get formula and I was not having that haha

what ebf? and yes I'm ftm. and I won have anymore kids so I wanna cherish every moment with my little one.. my boyfriend won't even change or feed him.. I just have to worry bout his family.... they all the time around and wanna do something... @aboutellesbabe

Nope! Are you a ftm? I'm the same way with feeding. I got so annoyed with people asking all the time so I switched to ebf. Now nobody bothers me about it anymore haha

nope I'm the same way mines is 3 weeks also and i only let my hubby feed and change him sometimes when I'm really tired but besides that i don't let anyone else do it.