so tmi time. my boyfriend and I use to have awesome sex, lasted for an hour or sometimes longer. we would do it 2-3 times a day.... now it maybe 3 times a week and I get lucky if he lasts for a minute! I feel so unattractive. should I? or is it because I'm tighter? idk. he doesn't believe in oral, but wants me to give it. so regardless he always finishes and 9 times out of 10 I don't. Advice?
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Before I was before we would do it 3 times out the day. Before work, his lunch break (he got to come home for lunch) and before bed 😂 When I got pregnant we still would but as my belly got bigger it would be shorter because your body temp is high so its extra warm down there and makes them cum quicker. Towards the end of my pregnancy I was too tired to get on top or even want to have sex but I would give him oral.
he's 20 and its our first. he doesn't help Me get of when we first go together he would finger me or something for forplay. but now he just wants to have sex and.he doesn't want to wait for Me to get wet or anything.
out of curiosity how old is he?
& if this if your first baby so many things are probably running through his mind constantly so he probably really isn't thinking about sex as much as he use to . he's probably thinking about a baby and expenses and stressing over things we don't stress over but dads make a huge deal about as if baby's gunnu come out and need money for college the same day aha but I'm curious on his age because my fiance and I use to have sex ALLT several times in a day back after back its all we did after I was almost 20 my sex drive jjst went straight down i thought it was because I was pregnant but it wasn't . it's just not something I'm always tryna do now. I mean I have my moments I'm like super horny but I have days where I'm just like no. even before this second baby when I wasn't pregnant. but also with this pregnancy its harder for me to reach an orgasm not sure why but it is so I lend him a helping hand and play with myself during sex so that why I get mine too. it actually turns him on ahah and my fiance use to last longer in sex too and now doesn't last as long as he use to.. I think it's just because he's not stopping himself from cumming anymore tryna impress me aha hes relaxed (:
lol I didn't mind it until he started to not have sex with me after I gave him oral
He doesn't believe it oral but can take it from you?? That's sounds like some bullshit and like he's lazy! Lol
I asked him and he says he's very attracted but just doesn't feel like having sex as much as he use to. so in other words he's probably less sexually attracted to me
the belly may make him nervous. I know when mine popped out my bf didnt want to. it was weird for him and be was afraid to hurt the baby. we actually didnt have sex for the last 3 months of my pregnancy cause he just couldn't do it.
I have . it seams like things go good and then suddenly he finishes. I don't know if I should feel good that I can get him off so fast, or if he just wants to get it over with.
Stop giving him oral if he won't give it to you. So unfair. And no he's not unattracted because of your belly, men are simple creatures. Lol maybe tell him you expect an orgasm every time, that's what I told my SO early on.
I just feel like he's not attracted to me now that i have a big belly
Shoot I wish I had sex 3 times a week.. I never see my boyfriend anymore because he loves with a friend. But honestly I wouldn't worry too much about it
we have started to have sex more and he's made sure I got off every time. he also seems less stressed. at least he has started to understand. sex makes me feel close. I don't just like it because it feels good!