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Marlaena Lowe
Marlaena Lowe
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So I really want to get a fetal Doppler but everyone including my boyfriends mom makes it seem like I'm stupid for…

So I really want to get a fetal Doppler but everyone including my boyfriends mom makes it seem like I'm stupid for wanting one... She was like "I could think of better things to spend your money on"... I worry a lot and want it because it'll ease some of my worry and reassure me but everyone looks at me like I'm dumb for wanting it... 😔😔

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mommy2mckenzie

Nicole

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Do what you need to do to feel safe and worry free. If you're stressing, baby is stressing.

lynnbinn11

Kalynn

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if it'll make.u feel better then do it. it's your choice your money. just do it!!!

theshaws

Samantha

Get it! Don't let anyone tell you what to do with your money or child. If it stops you from stressing and worrying so much then you should do it. Ive been looking at some too and I think it's pretty cool.

rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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Thanks @lynnbinn11 @mommyinaugust @theshaws I'm just so tired of everyone looking at me like I'm stupid over things.

theshaws

Samantha

Thats the great thing about being mothers, we get to make the ultimate decisions. I just dont understand people sometimes, if its not for them and not their money then they shouldn't be concerned.

rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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Exactly! They're opinion is irrelevant but it just hurts my feelings because my boyfriend goes and buys $50 worth of beer and no one bats an eye not even me but I was a $55 fetal Doppler and I'm crazy and don't need to waste the money...

rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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@theshaws,

aj33

Amber

Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего

get one of the apps on ur phone

rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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I've tried those and they don't seem to work. Do you know a good one that works??

rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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@aj33,

aj33

Amber

Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего

no, was gonna look into it myself tho

missing154user

missing154user

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I got my doppler on the wish app for only $37. Works great! I used mine daily when I first got it around 15 weeks. I don't use it nearly as much since I can feel him move so I know he is ok. But if you really one want, get one. I know mine made me feels loads better in between dr appointments.

rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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I'm thinking of getting one no matter what people say. It's my baby and I want to know he's healthy. @jacesterlingsmommy

lakilucid

BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard

Мама дочки (2 года)

I got the same reaction. haven't bought one yet.

ashley.sheeks

Ashley

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I absolutely LOVE mine. I got it when I was a little over 9 weeks!

tahtahme

Tahtahme

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Its not that expensive. I say the same thing when my husband says stuff. $50 on beer/week, $60 on video games etc...I didn't need a doppler because I have twins and go to get checked almost every week, but if it makes you feel better its not like a $300 thing. Plus no one needs to know you got it 😉

cherisenicole

CheriseNicole

It's your money buy what you want

rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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@tahtahme, exactly and my boyfriend just got his $48 beer and whiskey from his brother and it's got me so upset. I'm going to get the Doppler regardless because he doesn't need beer but I feel like I need that Doppler to make me feel better. Plus I love hearing his heart beat.

tahtahme

Tahtahme

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The doppler is more necessary than beer, and also when you get to the end you can just go ahead and resell it in a Facebook group or on craigslist and easily get at least half that money back. Can't say that about a whiskey bottle!

rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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Exactly! @tahtahme

pennerswifey

Katie

I've got one if you want it

rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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Really? @pennerswifey

pennerswifey

Katie

yeah I just don't know how I'll get it to you

rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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I don't either if I had a way to get to greenbrier I'd come get it. @pennerswifey

pennerswifey

Katie

we can figure it out

rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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Maybe I could get my boyfriend to drive and we can meet up somewhere lol @pennerswifey

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?