Over here crying my eyes out . Y'all forgive me for saying this please but I wish I wasn't pregnant , right now in my life I'm not stable I work as a host at IHOP I still love with my mom I only make 200-300 a pay check sometimes 100 my relationship with the father is very unstable . I just feel bad I bringing a child into this mess and I hate that it's going to have a useless mom . This was the wrong time to be pregnant . Wish my child could have a better mom who can actually provide way better than I can . My mom made it very clear that I'm not mother material
I'm on all of that but still I feel like I can't provide @talbottgirl
sweetheart you are mother material everything happens for a reason. Trust God you will be ok
God gave you this baby for a reason. I promise he would not give you a baby if you weren't ready. keep your head up. you will be an amazing mother.
Your child needs love and support. not money and materialist things. The state will even help you until you get on your feet. Don't stress yourself out, its really not good for the baby.
Don't cry babygirl! God doesn't put more on you than you can handle. Having a baby isn't all about money, the most important thing to that child will be being loved. Being a mother isn't easy, for anyone even the rich. Trust me I wish my situation was A LOT different as well. If you ever need anyone to talk to I'm here for you. But don't let someone else bring you down & tell you that you're not mother material.
omgosh please don't think that way. Motherhood is not easy by far even if you had help support or the money. Things will get better. I've been a single mom for some time and I didn't want kids. But after I had my little boy he made me stable and a stronger women. All I wanted was to protect him. Trust me I worked at Denny's and times will be hard but it gets easier.
dont let anyone tell you you arent mother material!! it may be a difficult time but if you want to bring this child into the world then you can! i watched my mom do it and its possible! im here of you feel like you need someone to talk to or support you!
If it means anything, I believe in you. I might not know you, but everything happens for a reason. This baby will be a blessing in disguise, I'm sure! I'm here if you need anyone to talk to & I hope things get better for you. 😌
Hunny you need to calm down. I barely make enough and me and my fiance can be unstable but you will make it work. There is nothing wrong with getting help from the goverment. Get on wic and food stamps asap and it will help. My friend has a son and has no job and he isnt missing anything. She gets food stamps w/cash and wic.
block it out love... those are lies the enemy is trying to get you to believe... you are a famtastic.mother... you have taken care of yourself for the past few months to carry this child that will love you unconditionally... my husband was born in a poverty neighborhood.in.Chile and they had no money,,, very little for food and some nights went hungry... hon he has grown up to be one of the most amazing.men in my life.. he has so much love and patience for.humanity.. he finds peace in the simple things... he doesnt need money or material things to make him happy.. you are enough for your baby... you do not need to think you are anything less
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his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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keep your head up mama, you are not useless at all, your baby will be loved I'm sure