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Lyndsie Duncan
lyndsie94
Lyndsie Duncan
I'm gonna be totally honest here. Please don't just give me the cookie cutter advice.
I'm starting to hate my boyfriend/baby's father. We've been together 3 years. He went from being so sweet and perfect, to physically abusive, to mentally and physically abusive, to now just mentally abusive. He's so mean to me. Everything I say starts a fight. I've been trying my best I really have. I just don't know what to do anymore.. I would love to get out and find someone new and be truly happy. But then I have to think about my son. I want him to be in his dad's life, but I don't trust my boyfriend alone with him (he asks me to do everything cause he don't get how) and I'd die being away from him for that long. Not to mention right now I'm a SAHM and spend every moment with my baby and I'd die having to be away from him right now.
If my boyfriend EVER hurts my child, you can bet he'll be bruised and single, if not dead. But he really does seem to love Grayson..

I'm just lost and depressed..
09.02.2016
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missing330user
missing330user
if your son sees that he's going to grow up treating people the same way. your son should see you and your SO together and learn, that's how to treat a lady. you can force a relationship because of a child. children dont always save relationships, sometimes they ruin them. get out of that.
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desirechild
desirechild
If he's physically abusive, and I'm not lowering the other abuse , but just think about your son seeing that and abusing future woman.. We follow our parents ... Do what your heart says, but don't let a man touch you like that EVER
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missing405user
missing405user
listen to your gut and heart! sometimes in that situation even though you want what's best for your son sometimes taking him away from that is what's best! and do it before it's to late. if you need to talk I'm here for you!
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tribalmark
tribalmark
Охренеть! Сочувствую.
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missing197user
missing197user
its understandable that you want your baby to have his dad in his life, but you can't trust him alone? that's dangerous. mommy instincts are the best to keep in mind. in the end you'll have to decide what to do, but you also have to be happy
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mrs.white_16
mrs.white_16
I have experienced your exact relationship with my spouse. I loved him but I also loathed his existance. Our fights were terrible and always made me feel horrible about myself. I had to change focus and find my purpose again. My daughter London is my life. My sweet unexpected blessing in disguise. Our rough patch took me away from her and I had to fix it. Staying in an abusive relationship isn't what's best for your baby. Children learn what they live and my daughter deserved better than that. God is what got us through our demise so when in doubt pray about it.
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