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Lyndsie Duncan

I'm gonna be totally honest here. Please don't just give me the cookie cutter advice. I'm starting to hate my…

I'm gonna be totally honest here. Please don't just give me the cookie cutter advice.

I'm starting to hate my boyfriend/baby's father. We've been together 3 years. He went from being so sweet and perfect, to physically abusive, to mentally and physically abusive, to now just mentally abusive. He's so mean to me. Everything I say starts a fight. I've been trying my best I really have. I just don't know what to do anymore.. I would love to get out and find someone new and be truly happy. But then I have to think about my son. I want him to be in his dad's life, but I don't trust my boyfriend alone with him (he asks me to do everything cause he don't get how) and I'd die being away from him for that long. Not to mention right now I'm a SAHM and spend every moment with my baby and I'd die having to be away from him right now.

If my boyfriend EVER hurts my child, you can bet he'll be bruised and single, if not dead. But he really does seem to love Grayson..

I'm just lost and depressed..

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missing330user

missing330userМама сына-младенца

if your son sees that he's going to grow up treating people the same way. your son should see you and your SO together and learn, that's how to treat a lady. you can force a relationship because of a child. children dont always save relationships, sometimes they ruin them. get out of that.

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desirechild

Nadenka

If he's physically abusive, and I'm not lowering the other abuse , but just think about your son seeing that and abusing future woman.. We follow our parents ... Do what your heart says, but don't let a man touch you like that EVER

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missing405user

missing405user

listen to your gut and heart! sometimes in that situation even though you want what's best for your son sometimes taking him away from that is what's best! and do it before it's to late. if you need to talk I'm here for you!

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tribalmark

ЕленаМама сына-младенца

Охренеть! Сочувствую.

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missing197user

missing197user

its understandable that you want your baby to have his dad in his life, but you can't trust him alone? that's dangerous. mommy instincts are the best to keep in mind. in the end you'll have to decide what to do, but you also have to be happy

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mrs.white_16

Sheila WhiteМама дочки (4 года), беременна (21 нед.)

I have experienced your exact relationship with my spouse. I loved him but I also loathed his existance. Our fights were terrible and always made me feel horrible about myself. I had to change focus and find my purpose again. My daughter London is my life. My sweet unexpected blessing in disguise. Our rough patch took me away from her and I had to fix it. Staying in an abusive relationship isn't what's best for your baby. Children learn what they live and my daughter deserved better than that. God is what got us through our demise so when in doubt pray about it.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Totally irrational so please no judgement... baby daddy is over for visitation and he took Karoline's picture and it…

Totally irrational so please no judgement... baby daddy is over for visitation and he took Karoline's picture and it infuriated me. I don't want him having pictures of my daughter. He just posts them on social media and claims how we keep him from Karoline and what a great dad he is even though he doesn't do shit. How do I get over this mamas? I'm really struggling with it lately. I just don't want him to have any part, seeing him with my daughter disgusts me .

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.