Your welcome love @mommy_11_12_15

I will and thank you I really needed some one to talk to @mommyof5kayla

I understand I was the same way trust me I didn't trust him I was acting stupid and everything it was easy and still isn't but if it was we would have been together along time ago lol but hey just give it time and if you think it's best just be with your baby you don't always need a man to be happy as long as you have your children you have all the happiness in the world @mommy_11_12_15

It is wonderful that you found such a wonderful man. I want to believe that not all men are the same but right now it is hard to see that. @mommyof5kayla

Yes love because when your not happy your kids see it and then they are not happy so it's time for you to live your life and do for your kids and ONE DAY a REAL man will come into your life and take care for you and your babies they way a real man is suppose too like to be honest I had a trouble last year around October because her sperm donor was going to spend 8 to 10 years in jail and he decided he finally wanted to see her I'm like no she don't know who you hard it's been 5 years boy I don't think so she has a dad who has been in her life since she was 2 that's her dad he raised, feed her, clothes her, bath her, put a roof over her head, got a car for us so we wouldn't have to walk like come on no sir @mommy_11_12_15

Thank you and you are right it just so hard but I rather be happy then to be miserable all the time. @mommyof5kayla

Love there are somethings you just have to let go for the better of you because to be honest you will be in the same place everytime you fall for his lies I was the same way with my daughter sperm donor.. he will put drugs and hoes before us and I tried to get him to understand your going to be 30 time to grow up you ha e a daughter and you need to be a dad and nothing he picked that life over us so I said fuck that I'm not going to be getting my heart broken over and over again and now it's been 5 years since I've seen him he don't call come around or anything for her I now met a man who stepped up and took my kids in and raised them and loved me for everything I have I'm super happy I choose to leave because I would never met my loving husband....

sometime you have to choose to be happy over anything okay maybe your mom is right it's time to move on and stop believing him love