well I wasn't going to make a birth plan, but now I guess I'm gonna have too😧
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@hermommy, anytime boo! I got you 😊 and Bruh. what? tf. that man has some issues. ah. and it took me some time to get to that point but now I feel so pro at ignoring ignorance. unless something really should be said. then of course Imma say something 😂
😢😢 that's why I'm going to tell the Dr no I've been told that makes babies very uncomfortable bc they don't know the doctors @savannahapagiebridges
thank you for chilling me out I was ready to cut him brother I really was lol, last time he pissed me off i told him of course she will be beautiful look at your brother that's her daddy 😂 I'm sure that pissed him off but hey😎 he's just mad bc he keeps messing his daughter up he shaved her head to make her look like her brother😑 luckily she's still sweet Hayleigh but girl i wish i was like you and could just ignore his stupid ass lol @xbbycolletto
I completely understand. he sounds like an all around creep as a whole. all of sebs friends hate the idea that he's gonna become a dad very shortly and they say some fucked up shit around me and I've just ignored it because they're opinions don't matter. that's why they can't find a down chick for them now, because they're too busy being childish af 😂but this little girl will be perfect and beautiful so his brother is gonna have to accept that because it's facts. he's probably hating cause he secretly wished it was his baby? lol who knows but you're welcome. I saw you post about the chord thing too but I never got to comment because my phone died. but I definitely wanted to let you know that you're gonna be the one to hold babygirl first. doctors make sure of that! no stress, mama :) @hermommy
yeah I don't want them batheing baby girl if I'm able I want to do it so she's comfortable, I know anything can happen but if she comes out normally and okay that's what I want done:)@savannahapagiebridges
girl exactly like every since we have gotten pregnant and found out that she was healthy johnathon (Joseph's brother) has been jealous... I'm not quite sure why, I know with our last pregnancy all Jonathon could say about the baby was that baby going to be perfect and beautiful and I was kinda like wth? it creeped me out and he does the same this time, that little girl will be perfect. like i get Joseph and i are sexy little people but really? Lol but Joseph has like backed off when momma bear comes out bc a few people have met my momma bear, Joseph understands that Brinley knows him because of his voice but she's inside of me, I'm the only real person she knows she will be comfortable with me. I don't want to hold her from him but give me time to get to know her lol and then once she's warm I'll give her to him@xbbycolletto thank you for chilling me out I was highly upset with his brohr
that's terrible, boo. I'm sorry to hear that :( and wow. he sounds like trash. like forreal. that upsets me for you guys! i'm sure Joseph knows his role is important as well but your role is more emotionally and physically important to brin. she knows you more than anyone will because she's growing in you and she's gonna know you're mommy the second they place her on your chest. and im sure once Joseph gets to hold her she'll know that's her daddy as well. babies are smart like that :) @hermommy
okay, there are other things I need in the birth plan also bc they aren't bathing her immeidielty or cutting the cord until all the blood is back in her@savannahapagiebridges
She's right they normally always lay the baby on the momma when it's born and then the dad cuts the umbilical cord I've never known them to hand the baby to someone else before the mom unless it's an emergency!!! @hermommy
that made me feel better because that was my plan with her and to get her to latch naturally, so hearing his brother say that hurt my feeling because like he doesn't do anything for his kids at all, they're scared of him. I know Brin will love her daddy and I'm sure she will be a daddy's girl but she needs me just as much, Joseph was just laughing at his brother, and girl yes. this is the same brother that threatened to kill Brin and I, the only reason we even associate is because Joseph's grandma probably won't be alive much longer and she wants to be apart of this pregnancy and Brins life @xbbycolletto
oh. well he doesn't get to hold brin first, baby. what's gonna happen is soon as she comes out they're gonna hand her right to you! skin to skin contact us so important for you and baby so she can warm up! he'll be cutting the chord while you're holding her. the doctor will tell him when to cut it. so you have no worries. but of course just Incase, do tell them you don't want anyone to hold her first until you have. that's an important thing for momma. I have several birth plans just because of some of the complications I know can happen. but regardless first place doctors will put brin is on your chest and you'll be able to hold her first thing of everything goes smoothly with your delivery! your boyfriends brother sounds like a complete idiot who knows nothing about child birth. I'm so sorry you had to even HEAR that nonsense, boo @hermommy
you know girl, Joseph didn't do anything but he really made me think about baby girls bit h when he was talking to his drunk brother... his brother has 2 kids (only one is his) and he was telling him last night that the man gives the baby life by cutting the cord and that Joseph would be the first person to hold her and that she would love him more than anything. It kinda hurt my feelings bc like I'm the one giving her life she's growing inside me for 9/10 months just bc he cuts the cord doesn't mean anything and Brin will love me just as much if not more then daddy, mommas just understand more, I know when I was sick I wanted my mom no one else when I started my period my mom when I got hurt my mom. I just think his brother is a but head, so I'm going to make it to where my birtb plan states no matter what condition I'm in I hold her first @xbbycolletto
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
oh goodness girl😢😢😢😯@savannahapagiebridges