ok mommies , I need advice .. my baby shower was yesterday and I got everything I need , and then some .. my boyfriend made me leave everything at my moms because we're supposed to be moving next week and he said we don't have space .. I feel like I still have nothing for her , even though I have everything .. just because I don't have it here . ill be 35 weeks tomorrow and its really bothering me that her stuff isnt here .. am I over reacting to do you understand where I'm coming from ?
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you don't want to have to move it all again it's only a week and as long as u know u have everything waiting for you that's all that should matter.
I think that's the "nesting" part of you. I was the same way! We had lots of money back then, so we could just buy her stuff whenever she came. But it made me crazy that her bed wasn't bought & put together already. You just want the room and everything together. If you stay mad, it'll be over reacting. It's hard to shake the feeling, though.
It's only a week mama! But I agree with @lakilucid take some things with you. I love going in my baby's rooms just looking at his clothes, makes me smile :)
I get it. You have what you need , just not where you need it!
I don't get it. In my opinion you're definitely overreacting. Some people don't have anything. You just don't have your things physically with you until you move in one week.
Lol you still have what you need.. I don't understand the issue. You have what you need and more.. You just said that. It's just not at the house that you're not even going to be living in when you have the baby.
Girl im the same way!!! My man just doesnt understand, we hate to feel unprepared /:
take some of her things with you. enough to comfort you.
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its because you are in nesting . you want the room and everything in place before birth. its normal. google nesting pregnancy and email those articles to him so he could get an idea. men dont understand these things. is your moms house far from.yours? do you have atleast the carseat and crib or bassinet ready and day to day care items in a basket ready at home? just bring the small neccesities. and try organizing your home to prepare. get rid of some unnecessary items and junk to make space for baby.