this might sound silly or dumb... but why is it so hard for people to tell me good job.. I'm proud of you.. You're a good mom... etc? I work full time, 40 hrs a week over nights.. come home to my son and only sleep no more than 5 hours a day. when we go to his father's house, I'm still the one who does EVERYTHING for him... puts him to sleep, wakes up in the night with him, wakes up in the morning... while his dad sleeps. his dad works part time... 3 hours a day like 3 days a week....but thinks he's more entitled to sleep than I am. I have to beg him to let me take even an hour long nap. he hasn't bought anything for Anthony. and I don't complain at all. where's my recognition ? It's not fair at all. my family doesn't even give me any recognition . instead I have my asshole of a brother telling me I'm such a terrible mother every chance he gets. I know I'm a good mom, but it's still something I would like to be told. I have only been called a good other once, and that was this past Christmas by my son's grandma... she was telling her sister how I do everything for Aj and how much I love him and all that. why can't anyone else ever say anything? it might sound dumb, but it's just something I need to hear 😔😔
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we didn't get into a relationship until Aj was 3 months old... he's 10 months now. @ajsmommy15
Trust me. I feel exactly like you do, the only difference is, me and my sons father are not in a relationship, never have been... We used to be such great friends and now its just like WTH @ajmommy
@ajsmommy15, right because he never disrespected me before I got pregnant. I just can't take it anymore. I've dealt with so much from him.... and he doesn't know how to apologize for anything. he's cheated on me too. majority of our relationship.... it all just makes me think what I ever did to deserve this type of treatment from someone who claims to love me. instead he throes every little thing he does do for me in my face every chance he gets.
@moramomma thank you so much. I am trying my hardest. I try so hard to stay strong and not break down in front of my son... but sometimes I just can't help it and I just cry... then he gets upset and it just frustrates me 😔
You sound like an amazing mom doing her best to me! Sorry you have so much negativity surrounding you 😢
To me it seems like when u have a kid with a guy he feels like he can say/do whatever and because to him you're not going anywhere cuz of the child @ajmommy Stay Strong for AJ
to add to this post : my son's father is also physically and mentally abusive towards me. he constantly calls me a bitch, a hoe, thot.. all that type of stuff. on Christmas he slapped me 3 times because I wouldn't let him hold Aj because he was too drunk and already almost dropped him once. he choked me and punched me 2 weeks ago because my male coworker called me to ask me to tell our manager something for him.... he always tells me I'll never find someone who will love me more than he does and whoever I get with after him will just use me for "my money and pussy because I got a fat ass" . I've tried leaving him before but he literally blows my phone up.... telling me to stop acting crazy because I ain't goin anywhere.... he'll pull up in front of my house and tell me to get us dressed to come over. .. I don't even know what to do anymore.... @mrsmoore @ajsmommy15
I kno how you feel.... You keep doing what you're doing because your son is looking at that & he sees what a good mom you are. I wonder the same thing until I look into the eyes of my little angel and I get my answer every time... #AJKnows #GoodMomsStick2Gether
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