Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I have been trying so hard to be calm, and nice. This morning though, my fiancès son decided to spit at me and hit me. This is constant with the hitting, the spitting is new. We've both tried sitting and talking to him, time outs, cry it out, try to avoid spanking as much as possible but it has happened. No form of discipline works with him. He hits me, he hits his dad, he hits my son. I'm so afraid of what's going to happen come May when the baby is born. Is he going to try and hurt our baby? What's going to happen? We've both stuck with following the same discipline routines, and sticking with what he or I say. I don't know what to do. I'm so frustrated, I'm so broken. I just want to cry and hide.
Please send lots of prayers my way ladies. Were so heartbroken to find out that our little one no longer has a heartbeat as it stopped at 9 weeks and 3 days when I'm supposed to be 10 weeks and 3 days. I'm so hurt, confused, and feel so lost right now... as yall know I had an elective ultrasound for tim to see baby and hear heartbeat since he missed my first one due to always working out of town... we just knew we would see our little one turning flips and showing out for mommy, daddy, and sister. Instead, we leave with bad news, heartache, and tears. My little girl has never seen me so sad, it made her so upset and it's just so hard to try to fake being happy when inside I feel so broken, and trying to hold the tears back in front of her. Why is this so hard. I have to go see my obgyn tomorrow, as he doesnt know yet , to confirm this and discuss what our next move will be. their office was closed at the time of my elective ultrasound. 😔😔😔
Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then promised that on the mornings he doesn't work or the ones he works later he would feed him breakfast so I can have my relax time before having him all day long. Then every morning he is here he says he's not going to get him breakfast because he doesn't want to and sits there telling me to go make and feed our son breakfast. Then every time I remind him of his promise he rolls his eyes and gets butt hurt like wtf. You promised me these things I didn't make you and it makes me mad when you don't want to honor your word and then demand that I do it instead of at least asking me if I could. I feed my son his breakfast and now I'm eating mine in the kitchen because I'm just so irritated.
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
Morgan·
oh my...sounds out of control. swearing on your child's life and lying...wow...either he changes or he has to go. wow..
missing150user·
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@mrsgeorge, yeah, I've put up with so much I'm just like done. I love him so much I just can't keep letting him hurt me. I'm to the point where I am numb. It just sucks cause we have a 5 month old baby together. I know he will go back to his family two states away if we divorce. 😔
Monica·
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My ex did the same thing with porn. He would watch it with me right in the other room and deny it to my face. He eventually ended up sleeping around and I left. I got tired of not being good enough for him. If he's lying to you constantly about it and he can't change for the better especially with your little girl, then I would consider giving him the ultimatum.
Morgan·
honey, I would let him. if he can't just stop and get help...then how is that love? love yourself more than you love him.
missing150user·
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@twinmommy2016, I'm afraid he will end up cheating on me eventually. I feel so ugly and disgusting and him watching it makes it worse and lying straight to my face so many times just hurts, a lot. I just wanted a happy little family but obviously porn is to important to him then his wife and child. 😭
Monica·
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It's not anything to do with you. They become addicts honey. It's like an alcoholic or a drug addict. If he can't get help, then you have to love yourself and your daughter. And don't be afraid to tell him that.
missing150user·
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@mrsgeorge, I don't even know who I am anymore he's changed me, I just know I love my daughter more then anything and I will not let her see me hurt anymore or cry or hear the yelling. I have to be strong for her an I guess it's time to move on. It's just going to hurt me so much because he was my first every thing & I'm so dependent on him. 💔
missing150user·
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@twinmommy2016, Sigh, I know. I was just hoping he'd change. But I guess some people can't change, thanks for advice. Appreciate it. ❤️
Morgan·
@ryliannsmommy i hope you can be strong for her. :) I'm here anytime!
Christine·
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As for her wanting to have both parents, your wish is probably for her to have two good parents. But your husband isn't acting like a good role model for her, so right now she needs him out of her life more. If he can't change, you have to leave before she starts thinking that your two's relationship is normal and okay. You both deserve more. -- Coming from the child of a single parent
Monica·
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Yep what she said! ^