So my husband has a problem lying, he's lied to me at least 4 times. Mostly about watching porn,…

oh my...sounds out of control. swearing on your child's life and lying...wow...either he changes or he has to go. wow..

@mrsgeorge, yeah, I've put up with so much I'm just like done. I love him so much I just can't keep letting him hurt me. I'm to the point where I am numb. It just sucks cause we have a 5 month old baby together. I know he will go back to his family two states away if we divorce. 😔

My ex did the same thing with porn. He would watch it with me right in the other room and deny it to my face. He eventually ended up sleeping around and I left. I got tired of not being good enough for him. If he's lying to you constantly about it and he can't change for the better especially with your little girl, then I would consider giving him the ultimatum.

honey, I would let him. if he can't just stop and get help...then how is that love? love yourself more than you love him.

@twinmommy2016, I'm afraid he will end up cheating on me eventually. I feel so ugly and disgusting and him watching it makes it worse and lying straight to my face so many times just hurts, a lot. I just wanted a happy little family but obviously porn is to important to him then his wife and child. 😭

It's not anything to do with you. They become addicts honey. It's like an alcoholic or a drug addict. If he can't get help, then you have to love yourself and your daughter. And don't be afraid to tell him that.

@mrsgeorge, I don't even know who I am anymore he's changed me, I just know I love my daughter more then anything and I will not let her see me hurt anymore or cry or hear the yelling. I have to be strong for her an I guess it's time to move on. It's just going to hurt me so much because he was my first every thing & I'm so dependent on him. 💔

@twinmommy2016, Sigh, I know. I was just hoping he'd change. But I guess some people can't change, thanks for advice. Appreciate it. ❤️

@ryliannsmommy i hope you can be strong for her. :) I'm here anytime!

As for her wanting to have both parents, your wish is probably for her to have two good parents. But your husband isn't acting like a good role model for her, so right now she needs him out of her life more. If he can't change, you have to leave before she starts thinking that your two's relationship is normal and okay. You both deserve more. -- Coming from the child of a single parent

Yep what she said! ^