Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
#mombassadorchat Happy World Breastfeeding Week! Please share your breastfeeding stories and tips! Hi everyone! @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom here. For today's chat we're going to talk about breastfeeding and pumping in honor of World Breastfeeding Week! Both can seem complicated or stressful, but remember you have lots of support here! With my first son I had things going against us for breastfeeding. I wish I knew back when he was younger that we could have still tried! With my second son I was determined to breastfeed, and even though he was born 11 weeks early I wasn't going to let that stop us from trying to breastfeed! For 7 weeks I pumped every 2 1/2-3 hours on the dot to establish and maintain my milk supply. When your little one is born early they usually need time to master sucking, swallowing, and breathing so I wasn't able to nurse right away. When my son was 33 weeks gestational (so 4 weeks old) we were finally able to latch on, and he did great! By 36 weeks gestational we had successfully started breastfeeding, and today marks 21 months of actual at-breast breastfeeding for us! I am passionate in trying to help moms-to-be and moms with breastfeeding and/or pumping, but I support moms who choose not to or for other reasons cannot breastfeed. Remember, I mentioned I didn't breastfeed my first son. I understand both sides. Breastfeeding isn't always easy, but I believe it's at least worth trying! Please help me celebrate World Breastfeeding Week by sharing your tips, questions, concerns, product recommendations, or anything else breastfeeding and pumping related! If you have a question for @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom, please tag her in the comments below! Or share your advice and feeding stories.
Breastfeeding moms: so I am planning on going on a 3 day vacation with my hubby & a bunch of friends to Catalina in May, (my baby won't be going with us) and I do not wanna be pumping and dumping every 2 hours out there.. so if I don't pump or breastfeed for 3-4 days, will my milk supply drop significantly? 😩😩 & I don't know how I'm gonna deal with the engorgement pain if I can't find time to pump out there.
Breastfeeding. I am a HUGE breastfeeding advocate. No, I will NOT shame you if you decide to formula feed, and will not tolerate anyone else doing so on my post. Everyone has their own reasons on why they feed their child the way they see fit.
So moms after doing research and looking at them I’m pretty sure I have inverted nipples😭 sorry if this is tmi.. but i really hope it doesn’t effect me being successful breastfeeding. My first son did latch i just didn’t keep latching him and my milk never came in.
Tamara·
Following - same plan , only breastfeed
jada cincere·
В ожидании первенца
drink milk eat healthy
Daisy·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
There's not much you can do before you give birth. After birth make sure you're always hydrated and eat enough and let baby suck on your breast even if nothing is coming out because that is how they signal your body to make more milk. I took fenugreek pills after birth to increase my supply along with other natural ways.
Emma Havlish·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (15 нед.)
@dflowers, did the fenugreek help your supply? And I plan on bringing a big gallon of water with me to the hospital (I know they have water but still lol) because I've heard you have to stay hydrated. I just have always wanted to breastfeed especially with this being my first and I hear a lot of mom's saying they had to give up because their supply was too low
nicki·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I was wondering the same thing, I'm started to get worried about milk bc I'm 30 weeks and I haven't even started leaking yet, and with my boys I was nonstop leaking by now.
Emma Havlish·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (15 нед.)
@baileysmommy, my friend just gave birth about a month ago and she leaked for about 2 1/2 months before giving birth but produced only a teaspoon and had to give up because her baby lost 9 ounces in 24 hours and I will be absolutely devastated if I can't breastfeed :(
nicki·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I will be devastated as well, this is my last baby and I gave up with my first bc he wouldn't latch. Granted if she doesn't latch I plan on at least pumping as long as I can. But I just worry bc I haven't leaked at all. :(
Daisy·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
They helped a lot with me. My supply wasn't low but I needed to pump extra because i went back to school full time right after birth. My daughter hated formula with a passion, so I never supplemented and I think that helped too
Emma Havlish·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (15 нед.)
I'm going to take any advice I can get and when I go in for my next appointment I plan on asking my doctor. Obviously if my baby doesn't latch, I'd still pump but I want to have the bond of actually breastfeeding :/ I've leaked a tiny tiny bit but it's only white liquid so idk :/ just worried
Emma Havlish·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (15 нед.)
I will definitely look into that then because I'm just so nervous I won't create enough milk. Thank you so much! @dflowers :)
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
make sure you drink plenty of water.. also you have to be stubborn while breastfeeding you have to get up every time baby gets up and feed and possibly pump. I know that's my plan.. alot of the supply stuff has to do with after baby is born.. however I take plexus products to help balance my hormones and it helps me be overall healthy and other mommies have said they have had an over abundance of milk while on it.. there are other natural supplements but Plexus is the best in my opinion..
Samantha·
Мама троих детей
I wasn't able to breastfeed my other kids, but this time around my milk actually came in and I'm able to breastfeed my daughter 😊 so things can change. Just try to feed as often as you can at first, it will take a few days for your milk to actually come in so don't give up.
Samie Thomas·
Мама дочки-младенца
be careful what you take to increase your supply so early. you don't regulate until about 6w pp. you don't want to cause oversupply. which I naturally have. and its just as tough and time consuming. definitely stay hydrated. anything with electrolytes will help that (smart water, Gatorade). eat high fatty foods (avocado, almonds, etc). steel cut oats.
Emma Havlish·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (15 нед.)
Thank you ladies for all the advice!! I really appreciate it:) @_akgirl @aphrodite2014 @graciesmom2016