what should I pack in my bag and the baby bag for the hospital?! help?!...I know like the basics...but anything I wouldn't think of??

here this should help you. here's a checklist from my other pregnancy app
the hospital already has most there for the babies. get you some comfy close. something to wear home. for you and baby. something to keep you busy in the hospital, just in case you need it. hygiene products. you don't need to worry about doing your hair or make up. it's a time to relax. but that's up to you. you might want to bring your husband a pillow. but they do have that all there too. folder for your paperwork.
Chap stick. annd for the baby I'm packing a blanket and cute stuffed animal for the newborn pictures. most hospitals have a photographer come in the day after the babies born and ask if you want them done.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.