Hi I'm new to this and I've been ttc for 5 months. my bf believes he can't get me pregnant because he drinks to much, Help!!!! Does the alcohol he drink kill all the sperm..
drinks!!!! Honestly......
need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Is this the one yall drink to induce??? I'm desperate
How would you guys feel if your husband drank every night between 6 and 12 beers with children in the house. But the only time he drinks is after 7. Sometimes if he works his night job on the beach doing the tractor he comes home at midnight and starts drinking 10 beers. He doesn't get up in the morning to help with kids and is passed out on couch???? Oh and instead of pissing in a toilet when he's drinking he pisses in and old formula bottle or Gatorade bottle then pours it down the sink. But he says he not a drunk he's a good father and provides for his family. Ok but then that makes him a functioning alcoholic right? And his excuse will be he works a lot that's why he will not get up and help in the morning when he has off. No it's because you have a hang over and we're up till 3 drinking. I just don't get it. And if I say anything he gets all defensive and asks why am I starting with him. Am I wrong here is this normal and ok for him to do? He thinks it is. Oh and he has been telling me since I've been with him (almost 6 years) that he is gonna cut back and take nights off. I'm still waiting to see that happen
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Kristin·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I would think there would be a lot less babies born from one night stands if that were true
Lauren Healey·
OK yeah that's what I was telling him but he drinks every week like once or twice but really heavy.. he says you can't get pregnant I cant make kids.. cause I drink to much @wiccanmommy
Rachel Lynn Tindall·
Sit down and have a serious conversation and ask if he wants kids, if he does then he'll probably need to stop drinking . Getting ready to conceive is not all about the woman getting her body ready it's also about the man . It won't kill all of his sperm but it will definitely lower his sperm count
Lauren Healey·
He's not ready to stop drinking I had a talk with him about that , but he does want a family... he doesn't have any children @rachellynn
Rachel Lynn Tindall·
If he's not ready to stop drinking then he really doesn't want a family. Has he considered AA?
Lauren Healey·
nope, no AA for him he's in denial , but I think I got a faint line on a test on 15 dpo ... my cycles are 32 days long and I'm 19 dpo now AF is actually due tomorrow so we will see if his soldiers are swimming... I just don't know how to tell him if I am pregnant he will not believe me... do you have any advise for me @rachellynn ?
Rachel Lynn Tindall·
Get a clear blue test the day after your missed period . Show him the test if you are
Lauren Healey·
yeah I thought about that I have a frer. so I'm going to take that first to ensure that I really am pregnant and then buy a clear blue , because I don't wanna waste money...
Lauren Healey·
@rachellynn,
Rachel Lynn Tindall·
Yeah do that