Hi I'm new to this and I've been ttc for 5 months. my bf believes he can't get me pregnant because…

I would think there would be a lot less babies born from one night stands if that were true

OK yeah that's what I was telling him but he drinks every week like once or twice but really heavy.. he says you can't get pregnant I cant make kids.. cause I drink to much @wiccanmommy

Sit down and have a serious conversation and ask if he wants kids, if he does then he'll probably need to stop drinking . Getting ready to conceive is not all about the woman getting her body ready it's also about the man . It won't kill all of his sperm but it will definitely lower his sperm count

He's not ready to stop drinking I had a talk with him about that , but he does want a family... he doesn't have any children @rachellynn

If he's not ready to stop drinking then he really doesn't want a family. Has he considered AA?

nope, no AA for him he's in denial , but I think I got a faint line on a test on 15 dpo ... my cycles are 32 days long and I'm 19 dpo now AF is actually due tomorrow so we will see if his soldiers are swimming... I just don't know how to tell him if I am pregnant he will not believe me... do you have any advise for me @rachellynn ?

Get a clear blue test the day after your missed period . Show him the test if you are

yeah I thought about that I have a frer. so I'm going to take that first to ensure that I really am pregnant and then buy a clear blue , because I don't wanna waste money...

@rachellynn,

Yeah do that