ever get that if I don't do it it won't be done right feeling? I worked my butt off to get my 11 month olds schedule fixed I got him going to bed at 1030 instead of 5 we spent all week on the same schedule that his dad knew about I went out on friday to try and unwind and his dad let my son screw his schedule back up. its frustrating that no one listens they think you tell them things for fun and make up instructions for the hell of it!