?? about how much would you ladies say I weigh? my weight has really been getting to me lately and with holidays coming…

If it makes you feel better I was 140-150 when I first got pregnant now I'm 216 and you know what? I'm embracing it! (To be clear it was mostly in the first two trimesters once my doctors were concerned about weight gain I started to watch what I was eating) you look amazing! And even if you were chubby (from this picture I don't see it) thick is sexy too!

The only big thing about you is your hair.... And it's FABULOUS! hair flick at him and tell him to kiss your ass. You look great ?

Op he's an ass, you're pretty hot?

Girl you're ????

He's just a stupid f**ktrumpet (my friend made up the word and it's hilarious so I use it) for trying to make you feel insecure.

Hug received!! Anytime you need a pick me up, remember the R&R girls are here. We don't like people putting down ladies and being rude about weight.

Honestly, he's your ex and that's the worst he can throw at you? You must be a sweetheart! :)

Your hair is big and voluminous! ????

And girl you be looking good!

Before pregnancy I was 5'2 & 128lbs, I looked pretty skinny. My point is that your at the right weight for you, you look so good!

I haven't a clue what to guess, I'm horrible at this type of stuff. What I can say is your beautiful! Screw the haters!

I also creeped and saw your other picture, DEFINITELY not the slightest bit overweight.

My husband was creeping over my shoulder and said "if you ever cut your hair, cut it like that, that's hot" lol

Don't stress about your weight you're gorgeous!

that was such a sweet comment @sam. can I hug you? ? thank you!!!

It makes my heart ache that you're looking in the mirror and questioning what is right in front of you.

You are beautiful. Not cute, not okay, not so so...you're freaking beautiful! I'm jealous of your hair and your nose is so cute! I know, that's weird lol. You are a perfect size and not overweight at all!

Your ex is an ex for a reason...he's a big jerk...and he's probably jealous that you aren't there anymore because he was such a poop - face. That's right, I called your ex a poop - face. (I'm way yo tired. It was either that or a weiner - nugget). Just strut your stuff as you walk away and don't let him bring you down - he has 0 right commenting on your size and you can tell him that!

Lol! I should huh

You don't seem over weight to me. You looks great!

thank you ladies so much! it really means a lot

You're beautiful and you have a great body, you honestly don't seem overweight to me at all.

? I think you're hecka cute, and not big at all. Punch that fool in the dick for me k?

Lol pp it's a grown out bob with some layers ?

Who cares about your weight, you're gorgeous! Your body has all of the right curves, embrace them.

Idk but you're beautiful ??

You look beautiful! If ypu dont mind my asking how is ypur haor cut? This is how i want mine to look when its curled and i can never achive this!

Yes he is just trying to get to you...he is a jerk!!!

I have seen you post another pic before and in no way at all are you chunky!!!

And that hair OMG gorgeous

I think you are beautiful ?

Lol pp mine is also really frizzy but this is 2nd day hair. I had it straightened the day before & then I just used a two inch curling iron to do this. no hairspray or anything special except a little coconut oil when it was damp the day before

I hate that I let it get to me ? we aren't together anymore so I know he's just trying to hurt me but I hate it, it really makes me feel ugly. I probably wouldn't even have a problem with it if people would just quit bringing it up. & then I see smaller ladies in cute outfits I'll never be able to wear & then I just get so depressed about it. and I know, if I'm unhappy I need to quit complaining & do something about it - it's just hard ?

I need you to tell me how you get your hair so pretty!! Mine is a limp frizzy mess

Ew he's a jerk. You look great! And you're beautiful too.

Before pregnancy I'm 5'0 & weigh 160 ?

And you don't look anything close to being over weight-- tell him to try to make a human without gaining a few pounds ?

it's okay I posted it anyways because I realized I didn't want anyone to feel awkward about answering, lol. but thank you! this was the first time I've curled it in a while

I'm not going to play the guess how much I weigh game... But I love your hair!!

thank you ladies so much, really. even my mom brings it up sometimes. I'm 125-130 and 5'0. it just gets to me and I can't even stand it, I feel gross. I have clothes from before I got pregnant and it's crazy how easily I used to fit into them. ?

You look beautiful. Don't let anyone tell you different. It's hard to gauge from this picture because your lower half is covered, but it looks like you may carry your weight in lower half. I'd say 160 ish. I think 101 on you would look way to skinny. You look wonderful here.

You look awesome! You look about my size so I guess 125. But that shouldn't matter. Your dh is a ass. You are beautiful and definitely do not look over wight.

Is this a trick ??

I suck at guessing so I'm not gonna because I don't want to offend you but you don't look chunky/ big like at all lol

you look amazing op...from what I see you don't need to lose any weight ☺

I don't know, but you look beautiful AND healthy which coming from a woman who has dealt with anorexia her whole life and is naturally skinny to begin with: that is what truly matters. Can't you see he's bringing up your weight because he doesn't have better ammunition to hit you with? You're flawless, please don't let him win. You had a baby. That's powerful. Your body is constantly changing and you are rocking it.