I hate the fact that people can get away with doing things that if I would do they would be looked down upon and be the worst person ever... my dad just got out of surgery on Thursday and I offered myself and my home to stay while he recovers. Which I don't mind I love my dad and I'd rather have him close to me to make sure he's ok, which by the way I live in a 1 bedroom with my 4 kids husband and I. I let my dad stay in the room so he can feel more comfortable. Yet my sister and mom have came to ask if he needs anything and that's it I'm not allowed to leave him alone because he has issues getting up from bed I've been making breakfast lunch dinner for him he's on a strict diet yet everyone decided to come eat yesterday which was alot of them..I offered myself to help my dad not have everyone come and see him for a bit eat here and leave and everyone go on with their way like nothing. I've been getting up every morning 3,4am to give him his medicine with my 3 month old yet my sister could stay up with her husband and friends at their house (which she lives right behind me) drinking but never offered to help out which I forgot to mention my sister has a 3 bedroom home for her 3 kids herself and husband!! what pissed me off the most is my dad has helped my sister out so much in so many ways, credit cards, babysitting etc and she yet said " if I have him here with me I won't be able to go anywhere cuz I have to be home taking care of him" like wtf are u serious he's ur dad not a stranger!! I wish I could just take care of him and not have to deal with them coming and just pretending they care and leave like nothing!! sorry for the long rant I just need to get it out!