I hate the fact that people can get away with doing things that if I would do they would be looked down upon and be the worst person ever... my dad just got out of surgery on Thursday and I offered myself and my home to stay while he recovers. Which I don't mind I love my dad and I'd rather have him close to me to make sure he's ok, which by the way I live in a 1 bedroom with my 4 kids husband and I. I let my dad stay in the room so he can feel more comfortable. Yet my sister and mom have came to ask if he needs anything and that's it I'm not allowed to leave him alone because he has issues getting up from bed I've been making breakfast lunch dinner for him he's on a strict diet yet everyone decided to come eat yesterday which was alot of them..I offered myself to help my dad not have everyone come and see him for a bit eat here and leave and everyone go on with their way like nothing. I've been getting up every morning 3,4am to give him his medicine with my 3 month old yet my sister could stay up with her husband and friends at their house (which she lives right behind me) drinking but never offered to help out which I forgot to mention my sister has a 3 bedroom home for her 3 kids herself and husband!! what pissed me off the most is my dad has helped my sister out so much in so many ways, credit cards, babysitting etc and she yet said " if I have him here with me I won't be able to go anywhere cuz I have to be home taking care of him" like wtf are u serious he's ur dad not a stranger!! I wish I could just take care of him and not have to deal with them coming and just pretending they care and leave like nothing!! sorry for the long rant I just need to get it out!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?