So my boyfriend and I live together and after a miscarriage we conceived our son 3 years later .. Any who before I got…
So my boyfriend and I live together and after a miscarriage we conceived our son 3 years later .. Any who before I got pregnant he and I would argue a lot to where it got physical ... I got pregnant and I myself out my hands on him a few times and always cried because he never once told me a thing and would cry to me because I was so mean (supposedly but it was only because he would trigger me) well anyway after I had my son he's completely changed . Back to the same mean person but worse .. Calls me a dumb bitch a stupid bitch , a whore , a dumb ass , etc and has even started calling me a bad mother .. Well my baby is about to be 2 months and things haven't got any better . I try and make it work for the sake of my little family and because my little one deserves to have mom and dad around ... But I can't take this , I deal with this almost every day . I keep my mouth shut but it's constant abuse and it makes me so depressed because I love my son so much and his dad so why can't he love us ?? 💔 I'd hate to leave but this isn't fair to both me and my little one ... I wanna leave but I don't have the strength too ...
✨💕Arlene Parga 💕✨·
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Here's the second piece I said ... It's nothing but the truth
Lizzi·
Hey baby girl i understand what you saying and im going to give my opinion and advise no one deserve ur tears and who deserves it is not going to make you cry.... You need to let that asshole go u deserve someone better than him girly take ot easy i know it hard but life goes on. Hope u feel better wth that sweetie xoxo to ur baby
✨💕Arlene Parga 💕✨·
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@happymother100215, I swear I'm crying as I read that comment I don't know who he is or who's becoming he is so careless with our son acts like if he's jealous cause I give our child all of my time ... He's just so mean and it hurts me even more because I love him :( but thank you so much for the kind words .. Postpartum is very hard to deal with I just hope it doesn't hit me ..
Nelly Galvan·
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hope the best for you but one thing never let a guy put his hands on you because if they do it once they will do it again also don't let the baby hear the arguments they can feel it and hear it not good for them don't let the baby grow up on in this environment because when he gets older and if this still happening instead of loving his father he will hate him that how I grew up and I don't really want to see my father good luck im sure you will find a man that deserves you and that treats you like a queen just keep your head up its not the end of the road you have to live and dedicate your life to your son ill pray every gets better for you and your son
Elizabeth·
I hope the best for you but that's not a good influence on your child....even though your baby is young babies still pick up on stuff like that all your doing is hurting your son....I understand you love your man but your son is more important and that baby should come first....no matter how much love you have for his father.....you also need to keep in mind he could do what he's doing to you to your son.....keep your son safe....its the best thing....putting your son in that situation isn't good for him at all....
✨💕Arlene Parga 💕✨·
Мама сына-младенца
@mommynelly, thank you so much , I know I need to move myself from that situation to open his eyes but it's so hard ... I pray one day I have the strength to wake up and say enough is enough . But I feel vulnerable and honestly all I want is too be happy and I'm far from that rightnow 💔 but thanks again for the kind words ! It truly means a lot
✨💕Arlene Parga 💕✨·
Мама сына-младенца
@brooklynnesmommy1203, I agree with you 100% because I think the same way . I don't want him to grow up as well and think it's okay to treat women that way because his dad treats his mom the same and I wanna break that cycle . I've just had enough and even though it really hurts I think this is the last time ...
Elizabeth·
@arlene2712, you can't just think this is the last time though.....it has to be the last time....for your sons sake
✨💕Arlene Parga 💕✨·
Мама сына-младенца
@brooklynnesmommy1203, sometimes it's so much easier said then done 😔😔 but I know it's for the best ... I don't deserve this , no women does
Elizabeth·
I've been in your position....I've been there without a baby...but I know how hard it is to break that cycle and get out.....you have a baby he needs to be your biggest push like I said I know I've been there without a baby if I had a baby I wouldn't think twice I would just go
Nelly Galvan·
Мама сына-младенца
your welcome i will pray for you because no mother or women should go threw what your going threw especially being called a bad mother
Chy-Tiera·
Мама сына-младенца
You deserve someone so much better & I understand how easy it is to say leave than it is to actually do it but you should. You will learn to be alone with just your son , I'm learning now and if he truly cared about you and being a family he would man up and change. The disrespect he's showing you is completely UNACCEPTABLE!! You have to show him you deserve better so he'll do better!!! @arlene2712
Marilynn Rogers·
Do what it takes to gain the strength, you always deserve better and there is nothing wrong with your son having a step father or a father figure to grow up with. If he does this to u, think of what he will do to your son soon enough...
Lizzi·
We have to learn in life to let things go remeber God is watching all the time dont be stressed cuz karma is a b.... Remember girlyy every time u feel sad just look at son baby 🌸🌸🌸