we are trying to get our own place and she keeps trying to play all day with my daughter without thinking, when we move out , she is gonna pitch a fit because she won't get to play with her everyday. now she says 'you'll just have to call me when she wants me and I'll come over' because I told her she needed to cool it.

My MIL is constantly telling us how to do stuff and has no idea what she's talking about! She tells us he has diarrhea because his poops aren't solid yet (because he's not on solid food yet, duh), and she's constantly bringing up stuff that we definitely already know and I would be scared if we didn't. Like what jaundice is and to have him rear-facing in the car seat (he's 10 weeks old) and to use diaper cream when he gets a rash and all sorts of dumb stuff like that. Not to mention she pulls him out of my arms and pitches a fit if she doesn't get to hold him the whole time she's around.

trust me when I say it hurts to hold her a lot. she has had my back acting up bad because she has days where she only wants to be held. so no. it totally ain't mean.

I know the feeling. When my boyfriend's mom is over and our baby is in her swing or bouncer she complains because no one is holding her. She thinks we are being mean for not holding our baby 24/7