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keirsten
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Is it bad I only want immediate family members when I give birth? Or while I'm still at the hospital?

Is it bad I only want immediate family members when I give birth? Or while I'm still at the hospital?

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cammommy504

Samantha

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (29 нед.)

I'm only having my boyfriend in the room during birth and I don't want anyone but his parents and my dad to visit while I'm in the hospital...

zensnow

Zentiana

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

I have a list of select people who can visit me after birth, only my SO and my best friend during

peanuts1mom

Brittany

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lol ikr @kaymonee

kannonsmommy

keirsten

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Thank yu I will !

ohsoawwsum

ohsoawwsum

Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

yea @kaymonee just be strict and make sure you let everyone know what you expect, as a first time momma, you want family and friends support and all, but remember stand your ground...Mother's and MIL'S often are the worse and super pushy about what you should and shouldn't do... from my experience anyway lol advice is always welcomes but make sure it's what you want to actually do, just don't let anyone tell you how or what to do. if you do it makes being a parent soooo stressful, just stand your ground momma it's an amazing experience don't let anyone ruin it for you

mommybump2016

mommybump2016

iv made a mistake about being too nice with family being there and getting on my nerves I had to tell the nurse no visitors for a while. but don't feel like you need to allow everyone in the room with you and baby. just have the nurses know your plan and they will follow through for you:)

kannonsmommy

keirsten

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That makes sense this is baby #1 for me so I hadn't experience that get but if anyone does anything I don't like their gone. @ohsoawwsum

kannonsmommy

keirsten

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I think that will be me. I don't want a lot of ppl around soon as my baby come out the womb lol @mommybump2016

ohsoawwsum

ohsoawwsum

Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

no one but my 2 best friends and my husband will be there. I want 0 family there. this is baby number 3, and the last 2 they have always caused drama of some sort... so they won't see this one until I'm home and READY for them to see him. I think what ever makes YOU comfortable is how it should be, and if they have an issue well they aren't the ones who gave birth and yea... lol but I'm kind of a bitch... lol

mommybump2016

mommybump2016

nope! and don't feel bad to kick anyone out!

kannonsmommy

keirsten

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Lol right. I hope I don't b too selfish and stingy @peanuts1mom

peanuts1mom

Brittany

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right and even then I don't know if I'll let any of them hold her except maybe my dad or mil 😂😂 like no she's mine

kannonsmommy

keirsten

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Yes! I only my bf and our moms during birth and immediate family after. No friends or anything. I just wanna bond @peanuts1mom

peanuts1mom

Brittany

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just hubby and sister in law during birth and immediate family after for me too

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?