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Kat
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Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (38 нед.)

begin rant: so my appointment on thirsday they didnt do a cervix check and he barely let me get a wprd in about my…

begin rant: so my appointment on thirsday they didnt do a cervix check and he barely let me get a wprd in about my concerns on how bug Freya will be. didnt tell me what I was measuring for fundal height or her heart. just that everything was good. took me to do a nom stress though to calm my nerves about her not moving. that was at least nice to hear her heart beat fpr 45minutes (would've been shorter had the machine not jammed like 4 times) went to say something again to him about her size but someone walked in and he instantly left and said have a good day. I see a different doctor this thursday cause apparently my doctor is too busy and cant see me. and ny MIL wants to come since she knows the doctor and wants to voice her concerns as well. I mean if c section is out of the question but what about induction so I dont end up pushing a ten pound child out...it's just nicer if I get to discuss it with someone then someone ignoring me. end rant.

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kitkat1015

Kat

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (38 нед.)

@mommybear0809, my normal doctor doesnt want to listen even if the ultrasound and my fundal height are measuring a week or two bigger. my first he just ignored it and she came out 9lb 10oz. I read that they normally get concerned for a c section if your mother delivered large babies...I was 9/2 brother 9 with a latge head and got stuck c section. my sister had no issues but did c section for her anyways and she was over 9lbs.

mommybear0809

claire

Мама троих детей

theyre suppose to. especially if you're concerned about having a big baby

kitkat1015

Kat

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (38 нед.)

@mommybear0809, yeah she'll be coming. they just cane back from Florida since they stay down there for the winter so it'll be nice not going alone. and im kinda glad its not my normal doctor. the prior to that I saw a different doctor as well cause he was on vacation. at least he had the courtesy to ask me if I had any concerns about myself so far.

mommybear0809

claire

Мама троих детей

you're concerns need to be voiced. let her go if she'll help you express them. sometimes its hard. I wish I was more expressive back then.

*UPDATE* Ladiessssss so I was debating on sharing this information as it means a lot to me so at my anatomy appointment…

*UPDATE* Ladiessssss so I was debating on sharing this information as it means a lot to me so at my anatomy appointment they are referring me to get a second more detailed sonogram specifically for the babies heart. They are telling me that my babies heart is undelvoped on the left side and that it is possible that she will need heart surgery after i deliver. There sending me to a whole nother hospital and the damn doctor even said that i might wanna consider ending my pregnancy 😩 smh all this is news i don’t wanna hear bc everything else with this baby is perfectly fine ! Even her heartbeat ! I most definitely don’t even wanna think about ending my pregnancy!!! So I’m confused at this point i never been through this before . I definitely need this second look bc I’m so scared . Please keep me in your prayers 🙏🏽

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?