Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
So mamas I need advice. We take our son to the gym with us and they watch him in their kid care. Well this will be the third time that we’ve gotten called in there to get him because he’s supposedly doing something we’ve never seen or heard of him doing. When I went in there, the girl was holding him, he was in tears and so happy to see me and wanted me to pick him up. I told her I wanted to see him doing what he was supposedly doing. He went on to play with a toy nicely so I told him to come to me, picked him up and signed him out. While my man was still working out, I walked straight up to the general manager and told him I wanted to speak with him in his office. We reviewed the cameras together and my son was IN FACT not doing anything wrong but playing and she grabbed him by his arm for NO REASON and slammed him on the ground and he was on the ground for a good minute before getting back up. Right then and there was when we were called to come get him because he was supposedly throwing heavy toys at kids (which he never does). The manager apologized and then told us he would talk to her... what should we do?
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
MamaInNY·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (23 нед.)
poor baby please help him. he probably wont jump you over as he must be freezing and in pain. i believe in these cases of emergency the other persons opinion is not valid as he is cozy and warm and this poor defenseless animal depends on you and him for care. would you forgive yourself if he froze to death? i believe animals pets are like children, i would do anything to save my pets as they are part of the family.
MamaInNY·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (23 нед.)
please save him. he must be so scared.
missing360user·
can you just bring him in.
missing112user·
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no offense but regardless what the weather, cold, hot. he jumps because he misses us. i'm not risking slipping in the snow and falling on my stomach. my boyfriend is on his way home to do what he needs to do. as well as we take care of our dog. just because he's an outside dog does not mean we neglect him or treat him like shit. right now it's not our choice that he has to be outside on a barrel with blankets and hay, inside a fenced up pen with massive amounts of running room. we live with my boyfriend's mom at her house. so her rules havd to be followed. we love our dog. but since it's snowing there's an exception that he can come inside. but I am not allowed to go near him on his chain bc of. how he jumps. he's knocked me over on cold. Conditions and I had to go to labor and delivery bc my son had decreased in movements when I was knocked over. we don't want that risk again.
missing112user·
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@yahuahsdaughter,
missing112user·
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@noahsmomma, no. because of he knocks me over again on my stomach that's a risk to the baby. my boyfriend is on his way home now to do it. i'm a high risk pregnancy so I'm not risking any of that towards my baby.
missing360user·
Ohh well I hope he's ok I have 3 pits. not the same as yours an a huge American bull I just worry about animals a lot they are like really big babies
missing112user·
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I mean I love. my dog. don't get me wrong. i'm worried. but I just can't go out there and do it. I just can't risk my baby's safety like that. especially since there's snow out there. George is huge. like.. he's half my size and way stronger than me. last time he made me fall ony stomach and I tore tendons in my hand bc it was on Concrete when the force exerted. I know in due time he'll be inside where it's warm. it's just not our call. ya know? if it was up to me he'd be an inside dog. but this IS my boyfriend's moms house.. we have to abide by her rules. @noahsmomma
Kai 🖤💋·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)
We have 2 pits and our male is super jumpy. he weighs almost the same as I do and the only way I can keep him from jumping on me is distracting him with food. ours stays indoors 24/7 though and is huge whimps when it comes to going outside for longer then a few minutes in the cold or rain lol
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
you can call animal control and they can assist you with bringing him inside for you or a police officer even. I still do things I shouldnt but bc I trust my body will be OK. hope he made it inside @misskaecolletto
missing112user·
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he did. he brought home a huge kennel. so now he's in the kennel. I couldn't bring him inside til he had a kennel to be in @gypsy.soul2