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OK I need to vent. I feel like my boyfriends mom is taking over my pregnancy. she made my registry without asking me,…

OK I need to vent. I feel like my boyfriends mom is taking over my pregnancy. she made my registry without asking me, she didn't tell me until we were up at her house. it made me mad. she didn't even do it right, so me and my boyfriends cousin went to babies R Us to fix it. plus she made two more registry's, like what the hell do I need three for? that's greedy! my mom wanted to plan the baby shower and when i told his mom she had the nerve to ask me if my mom could afford it! like umm yes she can! how rude! my mom has yet to put her "two cents" in.. then she talks about buying my son his coming home outfit, like no I'm his mother, I need to do that. Then I found out today that she already planned my baby shower! apparently it was suppose to be a surprise but my friend texted me today and asked what all I needed for it and I was totally confused about it! & Then she talks about wanting to be in the delivery room! hell no! I do not want her in there! we get along fine, its just she acts like she's the one pregnant! I don't want to be mean to her , BC she is very nice & has done a lot for me, I just think she needs to back off a Lil bit. am I wrong for feeling like this?

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theirmommy_3

JenniМама дочки-младенца, беременна (32 нед.)

Talk to her and tell her, if you dont then shell still do the same

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missing112user

missing112userВ ожидании первенца

my boyfriend's mom is the same. I feel the same girl. just tell her to back off. you should be able to do what she's doing. it's your pregnancy. not hers.

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babybermea

Sunny 💋В ожидании первенца

If it makes you feel any better my mother in law hasn't done shit for us not even bought a onsie or. Me a fkn cookie lol she sucks at life so atleast she's trying to do the most for y'all .

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cosmetology_girl

amanda

its very annoying.

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cosmetology_girl

amanda

his mom lives and hour away from us and I'm like I'm not waiting for her to come down here if I go into labor . I don't want her in the room. hell I'm not even gunna have my own mother in there! jus me, my bf and his cousin BC were close

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cosmetology_girl

amanda

@maddoxmommie0127, my bf is a mamas boy, I already talked to him about it and he didn't say much smh. & @babybermea I re did the babies r us one BC that's the main one, the other two I don't care for BC it basically has the same stuff

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maddoxisrael0128

tabbithaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

no u have the right to feel that way maybe ur bf can say something to her.. and if she wants to help at least involve u.. my patent and all my family live 1700 miles away and my mil is the only mom I have here on fl... she went with us and helped us or advised us and showed us.. I left my sister pick his coming home outfit... since she lives far away too

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babybermea

Sunny 💋В ожидании первенца

Just re do them all .... That's suppose to be your experience not hers :/ she's annoying

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xxbruinsbabexx

JennМама сына-младенца

Not at all

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