There's nothing wrong with letting friends and family know that you want to be alone in the delivery room with your husband. If they take it wrong, then they need to reevaluate the definition of boundaries and respect. You can't just invite yourself into a delivery room. You aren't the bad guy, you're a mother and a wife and your mom needs to understand that she isn't making these kinds of calls without your consent.

that's how my mom was now she is just rude nd hateful nd don't like nothin

wow..well its still sad for your cousin bcuz your mom lmom2twincesses ied@

@jnh199243, @me_preggo I have no problem telling my cousin no because she knows how my mom is my mom is very selfish and controlling. she lies about everything and always draws attention to herself so I'm used to it

you gotta do what u gotta dmom2twincesses o@

I had something similar happen to me in the past. sadly I had to be the bad person. but people get over it.