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Samantha Carrico
Samantha Carrico
Мама дочки-младенца

Is any one else living with in-laws and trying to raise a child and have a healthy relationship with their SO? My fiancé…

Is any one else living with in-laws and trying to raise a child and have a healthy relationship with their SO?

My fiancé and I have a 3mo beautiful baby girl and we are currently living with his parents due to financial reasons... He works a lot and I'm currently only working weekends so that we don't have to pay for child care... I feel like his mom looks down on everything I do with our daughter and has an opinion on EVERYTHING I do. anyways, lately I've been so stressed out living here that I've seriously thought about leaving my fiancé cause of all the stress... I don't want to take my daughter away from her father or anything but our relationship is taking a turn for the worse because of my being unhappy. I'm always in a bad mood and constantly take my anger out on him which is terrible I know but idk what else to do... I don't know if I'm just going through hormonal changes or what but I'm literally going crazy here and basically have no one to talk to...

Help?

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hellosweetie

Alexandra McMillanМама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

I'm right there with you, we live with his parents and our girl is 4 months. We're trying to save to get out but it's so hard. I get judged because I'm not working, and I'm breastfeeding her exclusively....it's so bad I barely leave our room when they're around. These people are mean, they yell all the time and hate EVERYONE. If you ever need to talk or vent, hmu I'm here....I feel like I'm losiing my mind most days, and I've become very shirt tempered and my depression and anxiety have gotten so much worse. Just keep your chin up, remember it won't be forever, and definitely talk to your man and tell him he needs to support you more and set boundries with the in laws.

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oliviasmommy0927

Samantha CarricoМама дочки-младенца

@minabella, that picture is so accurate!!! Thank you for the support :)

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aniyasmommy19

MinaМама дочки-младенца

Same story with me. I don't live with her but we're over there so much it feels like it. I know exactly how it is but she wants to tell you how to raise your kid because that's what worked for her, however that doesn't necessarily mean it will work for you. Try and remember that your living situation is temporary and everyone is doing the best they can. (The picture is just a funny visual)

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oliviasmommy0927

Samantha CarricoМама дочки-младенца

His parents baby him, I've told him to say stuff to her before and his response is always "oh she's just trying to help" my other frustration is that he doesn't help out much with our daughter... I know he works a lot but he needs to help

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ashethamermaid

Ashe Мама сына-младенца

Put your foot down. Tell him you respect his family but you don't like the way his mom talks to you or look down on you when you are doing what is best for your child

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