Honestly, my husband works 2 jobs and never gets a day off. I don't make him get up in the night with the baby cause I know how hard he works to provide for us. If my man is providing for me I'm going to help him do the best he can at his jobs. If he gets no sleep from being up with the baby then he won't have any energy to work. Call me old fashioned but my place is at home with the baby, cooking and cleaning. He takes care of us, so in turn I must take care of him.
I am a stay at home mom right now, well 2 years now lol but I am kind of the same way, he works 1 job but early hours and long days, so I dont make him get up either, but by his own choosing he helps with the house when he gets home because he feels I shouldn't have to pick up after him, my 9 year old and a dog even though I tell him I have no issues with it