Ugh I've had enough.. Finally broke down this evening. Everyday this week my SO has been coming home in the most horrible of moods. I try and talk to him and cheer him up but nothing helps. He just seems really annoyed and angry. He slams things around and never has one good thing to say from the moment he walks in until the moment he goes to bed. It's really hurting my feelings. He just seems so miserable and angry. It's like he finds any excuse to get mad. I had enough... Everyday I wait for him to get home so I have someone to talk too, but he has nothing to say. He never even thinks about my feelings or how his behaviour this week has made me feel.. He comes home the house is clean, supper is hot and ready and served to him. He doesn't have to lift a finger I do everything. Yet his attitude is so horrible all week. I don't understand. *
***i had to come upstairs to my room to be alone and cry it out, I'm beyond hurt and upset. I honestly don't know what to do anymore, this is not good. I don't feel I'm over reacting in any way.. Who treats someone like this suddenly and expects them to not feel upset..
Комментарии
@beautifuldisaster thank you and so are you .. i know that we don't really know each other but if your feeling down or anything and want to talk I'm here 😊 i was suffering with anxiety and depression because of stress and didn't have anyone to talk to and i don't want to see you stress out so much that you develop these horrible things .
thankfully im getting better but please its better to talk about anything that bothers you or stresses you out 😘
Awe you ladies are super sweet and awesome ❤️ @lizabeth & @aggiee
Hey i just wanted to say that your not alone.. men can be very insensitive but the reality is that if we could trade places with them and they go through what we go through as a pregnant woman they would not be able to handle anything that we go through smh.
Just try your best not to let him get the best of you and your emotions its hard but you can do it 😉 ..
like @aggiee suggested write him a letter or send him a long text message while he is at work .
Either way, be strong, keep your head up and smile your blessed with a beautiful family that loves you and depends on you 💜💙💚💛❤ @beautifuldisaster
of course sweetie... I know what its like being in that situation and its not healthy in anyway ... jus want tha best for ya
Thanks ☺️ @aggiee I really appreciate your positive comments they make me feel better 😊
your a very strong woman and will be lots of help in your situation... you need to be happy and healthy for you and your lil babies... you deserve happiness Evan if it means walking away .. <3
@aggiee, @brynsmommie Thank you Ladies so much ☺️ I'm honestly considering leaving him, I've just had enough. He makes me feel physically ill my body is hurting from all the stress and I know this is not good for my baby girl. I fear if I stay I'm going to end up miscarrying. He's just a really selfish man and so set in his ways he will never change. Everything is always about him. He's always #1 above everyone. It's very sad. Even if he knows he's done wrong he will never apologize. So I think it's best just to remove myself and my children from this situation.
@aggiee, the letter thing is a really great idea! I've done it before with my husband and he actually responded really well....I think when they know you took the time to do something like that, it's meaningful to them!! Good luck @beautifuldisaster it's not fair and you don't deserve it!
awe sweetie ... you should never ever go through that... I'm so sorry that your going through the mental emotional spiritual abuse from your SO .... its not fair at all... if he won't her you out.. maybe write him a letter letting him know how he is making you feel and give it to him or put in his pocket so he finds it... wish the best for you girl xo
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
So over this feeling!
Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
Awe it's nice to have some support for you ladies ☺️ @aggiee @lizabeth it seems like I have no family or friends to talk to these days :(