Bf goes to the store. Calls me an hour and a half later and says, "Hey I'm at (friend's name)'s house. His dad is going to survey a job site and he might hire me on to work with him for a few days. It's in Fontana. We're gonna leave right now. Is that okay?" He knows I have an OB appointment at 2 and I'm on bed rest so I'd like for him to come with me so we both know what's going on. I say, "So you went to Friend's house instead of the store??" He says, "No I ran into him and (other friend's name) when I went over there." I say, "Why do you need to go with him to survey HIS job site??" He stammers for a second and says, "Uhh well I want him to show me how to do the job."
I'm beyond angry. This is the second appointment he's missed, and I know he's bullshitting about even going to the store. He doesn't want to spend time with me and he's always putting other things ahead of me. I threatened to leave him, so he spent time with me yesterday, but it felt like he felt it was a chore. I'm over it, dude. Idk how else to make him want to be around me or make him stop lying to me about little shit.