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Gm ladies. I need some advice. I'm 5 months pregnant. I'm currently living with my aunt. She only charges me $400 a…

Gm ladies. I need some advice. I'm 5 months pregnant. I'm currently living with my aunt. She only charges me $400 a month. After speaking with her yesterday, she thinks it's a good idea that I continue to stay with her until I have my baby. My boyfriend, however, wants to get our own space. He lives with his younger brother. We have been saving up to get an apt or rent a house. My aunt says that we should buy a house if I decide to move out. I know that my aunt will be a big help with the baby. This is my first child. But I do want to share this experience with my bf. What would you do??? Why??

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tahtahme

Tahtahme

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I agree with @autumn on this one! if he really wants to be a part of this, you might be disrespecting him to choose a different option, which could effect his relationship with you or worse your child later!

autumn

Autumn Heie

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If the father really wants to be a part of this, wouldn't it be better to start off your family with the three of you? Living with your aunt may be the easier option, but having the father around as much as possible and letting him live with his own baby seems like the better one. Do what feels right, but always remember the fathers a part of this too :) and you're lucky that he wants to be! It seems like a lot of women wouldn't be able to say the same. Hope it all works out for you!

momma.of4

Viviann Barnett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I had myself a nice little 1bdrm apartment in GA I paid $500. Loved it. It just depends on what you want, help with the baby is awesome but having your own place also gives you more privacy & of course the help of the daddy. Either way it's what you feel is best for you and baby 😊

tipster

Tiffanie

Мама троих детей

I agree with @kaygrig living with some can be difficult and having a new baby is a lot of work and having a woman there would be helpful. The chaos of a newborn may put a strain on your relationship. He can still be involved may you should spend nights with him and the baby to test things out

kaygrig

Kay

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Living with someone is ALOT of work. It's a wonderful experience but whew! If your aunt is willing to let you stay then I'd stay.

momx2

Kira

Мама сына (12 лет)

My friend moved to Atlanta so finding a place close to what you're already paying may not be hard, but if your aunt is willing to help and comfortable there that's where I would stay. The first year is so hard especially if you're doing it alone. Not saying your bf won't help but living together and totally different than an occasional night together.

myreaofsunshine

Tierra

@momx2 no I have not

momx2

Kira

Мама сына (12 лет)

Have you ever lived with your bf?

bella91

Shay

I was kidding lol

ktwins188

Kassandra

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mexico"***

ktwins188

Kassandra

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which area are u moving to? San Antonio , Dallas ? or a small town.

I live in a small town called Edinburg like hour away from mexica

ktwins188

Kassandra

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@bella91,

nice. your going to find nice affordable houses and apartments(:

bella91

Shay

I'm about to move to Texas @ktwins188

missing57user

missing57user

staying with your aunt sounds better when i use to stay with my mom that's how much i paid plus i helped with the light bill and maybe aunt wants you to stay anyway

ktwins188

Kassandra

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aw I see. well I hope you can make the choice.

here In Texas you can get yourself a great apartment for 500$ lol But it all depends where u live.

missing98user

missing98user

Мама сына-младенца

I would probably stay with aunt for a while until y'all find y'all' s own place. She'll be big help too.

myreaofsunshine

Tierra

Just trying to make the best decision as a mom. It's not all about me anymore

myreaofsunshine

Tierra

I'm sure it will be more. Plus, normal baby expenses and daycare

missing73user

missing73user

Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

I wish I could live for $400 a month !

tahtahme

Tahtahme

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how much is it with your boyfriend?

myreaofsunshine

Tierra

He cannot stay over lol

myreaofsunshine

Tierra

I stay in Ga

mother.of.angels

Amanda

Мама двоих (младенец)

Best*

mother.of.angels

Amanda

Мама двоих (младенец)

Do what ever your heart desires, but yes as what @ktwins188 says you can definitely get your own apt around 500 a month. So you do have that option. Bet wishes to you! 😊

babygurl

Elishia

All the money you've been saving to move out is going to be spent on your baby I think you should wait a little till after the baby comes and see what your money looks like then

bella91

Shay

$400.00 is a steal, idk where u live but here in NY you can't find anything under $1,200.

bella91

Shay

can he stay over ?

ktwins188

Kassandra

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if you pay 400$a month might as well get your own apartment

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