**VENTING***
I have been a stay at home mom for 9 months and I absolutely HATE IT! I want a job, I need to get out of this house. but we can't afford 800$ daycare each month on top of 1,000$ rent. I'm losing it and my husband is too. I have no idea what to do. we cant live off one paycheck. but I can't work without childcare, but if we can't afford childcare than how am I suppose to work?! I'm so lost.
I usually see at Pinterest "legit online jobs for shams(stay at home mums)" where mums tell their experience with online companies. You should check it out, to see how all that online work works and nothing like selling wraps. I wish you all the best!!💕💕💕
I feel you! I'm a stay at home mom since I've had my son I've worked maybe 3 month! I love being home with him all the time but sometimes it is so frustrating with little to no help and the money struggles are the worst! even just a part time job would make things a little easier. so hard when everything is online now
that's what I'm thinking, thank you 💙 @deafmama16
@nicholefrank, do online school for now and try to make the best of it it will be worth it in the end and you have your degree and things will fall in place :)
it is extremely hard, when my husband was in the Army, I could afford to be a stay at home mom but now we can't and I have no clue what to do, I was going to go back to school but idk what to do on my down time. @deafmama16
I applied at some grocery stores and I don't "qualify" to run a cash register lol @autumnrae and i have thought about working online but I don't have any clue where to begin to find a legit online job lol I don't want to get stuck selling it works wraps or something crazy @deafmama16 and yeah, its hard to work around his hours @kartia_diamond
I have been trying so hard since we have been here, before we moved his parents promised us EVERYTHING and since we got here it's been so different and it was basically, I don't want to be blunt, but a lie. @nadiahuynh he swore up and Down he'd watch our son or my husbands sisters but his sisters go to school and play sports and don't have time my husbands mom is a school teacher So she's never home and his dad travels for work. we moved here because of all the stuff he promised.
those are crazy long days!!!! work weekends at a retail place!!! I manage a grocery store and we hire lots of weekend only people
opposite shifts of his are impossible he works Monday through Friday 4am to 7pm @kartia_diamond
@nicholefrank, ......damn.... Hmmm what about becoming your own boss? Work online :D
thank you @antonys_mommy I will keep you in mind! you're wonderful :)
Well if you find a weekend job I can still watch the baby I babysit monday-sunday
his parents have watched the baby once so we could go out to lunch and called 30 mins after we left and MADE us come pick him up BC he wouldnt stop crying.
the thing is my husband takes the car everyday and he works 4am to 7pm every single day. so I NEVER have the car. id only be able to work weekends and let's be honest who hires only weekends? and we've lived here for four months, it would cost more to break lease than to finish it out (blame this on his dad.) my husband was in the Army and they are the reason we moved here he promised he'd watch the baby so we could both work but now since we are here they are "too busy" and can't do it. @antonys_mommy @autumnrae @deafmama16
Being a SAHM isn't for everyone and I completely understand. I've been home for 8 weeks and I'm getting a little nutty. Hopefully you can find a cheaper daycare that is still reliable. Where there's a will there's a way.
you can work opposite shifts that's what me and my husband do!
Hey there I'm a stay at home mom I provide childcare services at my home for infants I charge $35 for 8hr days and $45 for 12hrs days I'm in mesa on Gilbert Rd and the 60 freeway.
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