Мамлайф
Мамлайф
Приложение для мам
Jessica Coffman
Jessica Coffman
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)

http://birthbootcamp.com/your-baby-is-born-what-happens-next-might-break-your-heart-guest-post-by-je This is worth the…

http://birthbootcamp.com/your-baby-is-born-what-happens-next-might-break-your-heart-guest-post-by-je

This is worth the read! I'm doing delayed cord clamping, and not letting them take my baby off my chest until I feel ready. My newborn will also not get the eye drops or hep B shot. The things they do to these brand new babies blows my mind. I wish I would have known all these things with my first.

10

Комментарии

momtothe3rdpower

GabiМама двоих (младенец)

The article definitely makes sense but that's not how it works all the time. Macie was born 3 months ago. They immediately put her on my chest. They did the prolonged cord clamping. Then I was allowed to have skin to skin and breast feed her. All before delivering the placenta. I got a lot of time with her. I handed her to dad so I could deliver placenta and then I got her back. The docs asked if I wanted her washed and weighed and whatnot but I said no. They didn't do the shot until maybe our second day and she didn't even leave the room. Some of those interventions are important and most of the time the hospital will either allow you to be a part of it or will just do it in your room. Macie was only taken out of my room once- hearing test- and was returned immediately. I promise, most hospitals and providers know it is most important for you to have skin to skin and bonding time with baby.

Ответить

missing189user

missing189user

I work land on doing all that as wellnand read an article on delaying the first bath after a few days so the baby can get use to their mothers scent and a few other beneficial reason for mother and child.

Ответить

princessvictoria

Cindy LeeМногодетная мама (5 детей)

but they did let me have skin to skin as soon as she was born after my csection and they never took her out of my room they did everything in there bath hearing test checked her blood sugars ..

Ответить

princessvictoria

Cindy LeeМногодетная мама (5 детей)

here where I delivered they asked if I wanted the hep b vitamin k and the eye drops I told them I didn't want anything and they told me in could denie the hep b and vitamin k but not the eye drops if I do they would have to call cps. it's to prevent infection in the eye or something like that . but I a do sign a paper denying the hep b and vitamin k...

Ответить

missing73user

missing73userМама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

It's so sad that it's just a business to them when it's our life & it determines the remainder of life... & not to make excuses for the horrible things some moms do to their child but, with all the interventions you can understand why some moms don't bond with the baby...it's like an animal...if you intervene too soon that animal will kill the young

Ответить

missing98user

missing98userМама сына-младенца

I held my baby until I wanted to get a break.

Ответить

jess_coff

Jessica CoffmanМама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)

My hospital didn't even offer skin to skin with my first baby :( I had to wear the gown they gave me @mrakel1

Ответить

jess_coff

Jessica CoffmanМама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)

I know and they get so much more of the nutrient rich blood if you wait until the placenta is delivered to cut the cord. They just wanna hurry and get their job done so they can go home. It's sad. @royce_ivy

Ответить

mrskel1

KellyВ ожидании первенца

I'm so happy that my hospital believes in prolonged skin to skin and unless you are choosing to have a circumcision ( we are having a girl) the parents are never separated from the baby.

Ответить

missing73user

missing73userМама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

Totally agree...I read this a few weeks ago & my mind was made up !!! I hate how they try to say oh we have to cut the cord it's too tight around baby...well baby doesn't breathe until the cord is cut..so your unwanted intervention is the cause of my baby being delivered blue 😡

Ответить

Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be…

Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are your thoughts on the matter? Do u think the parents are behind this? Idk because I haven't met the parents or children. I just think at 5 it's very young for children to really understand. What do u ladies think?

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?