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So I was in need of a roommate and my cousin (who I've lived with before) wanted to move in. He just took a six month…

So I was in need of a roommate and my cousin (who I've lived with before) wanted to move in. He just took a six month leave from one of his jobs and quit the other one so he has no income. I had to tell him that he couldn't move in because I needed the rent as soon as he moved in, then he gets mad at me for sounding apathetic, when just the other day he had gotten 200 dollars from his grama and he blew it on two fish tanks and i was going to rent him a room for 300 utilitys included and he has access to my entire house (idk about you but that seems like an incredible deal to me). Now we're not talking because I told him I don't feel sorry because, one he's dirty, the last time he lived with me he threw away my dishes instead of washing them two, he's so needy and depressed all the time and with a new baby, work and school I'm not gonna have time to deal with his constant self pity. And three he is so spoiled, my great grandmother was nice enough to loan him her truck, he is refusing to take it in to get serviced and keep it running because "it's not what he wanted" so I told him that he needs to park it at my gramas house where it will be taken care of instead of running it until it won't anymore. I really just can't stand people who are so ungrateful.

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levleah

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yikes, sounds like you made the right decision. You don't want to wind up taking care of 2 babies!

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Exactly how I felt, it just sucks because we've been best friends for as long as I can remember@levleah

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!

So mamas , tell me what y’all think about this. So my brother in law , is moving in with us . He recently had his…

So mamas , tell me what y’all think about this. So my brother in law , is moving in with us . He recently had his daughter she’s 4 days older then my son. The reason in why moving in with us is because my husband got him a job with him , and he has NO CAR, lives almost an hour away, & his 17 years old. OK BUTTTTT, his girl and baby isn’t coming to live with us , she’s staying with her mom , plus she starts school soon. BUT now his mother in law wants him to still PAY RENT 😒 & plus give his girlfriend money for her and the baby needs . Which I totally understand the needs for the baby and her girl . BUT rent ? I find it ridiculous because I’m the one going to clean his clothes , make him food, etc! plus his mother in law quit her job to help her daughter take care of the baby which I find it dumb. Because now she’s depending on a 17 year old to pay everything at the house . So what’s y’all intake in this SITUATION? 🧐