So I got a problem lol I told my mother in law she can be in the delivery room and now I really don't think I want anyone but my man to be. I normally don't like anyone in my face or touching when I'm in pain. How do I not hurt her feelings. I don't even have my parents coming to the hospital. :/
Im going through the same thing.. I already told my soon to be mil she could be but I'm feeling different ... You have to remember during delivery this is not a time to care about anyone's feelings except yours.. Everyone will have to get over it...Also you could just say the hospital wont allow it... Or wait until the time and have the nurses not let anyone back.
just tell her that you and your man has decided to let the birth be a private affair . This way no one gets left out. It will just be you and him until after the delivery.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
I put on my birth plan she was allowed but to ask me if I change my mind. I love my mother in law just not sure how I'll feel that day. She has her heart set on being there she even wants a tattoo in dedication to my son. So it's hard not to say no. Hopefully I'll be OK the day of the big push.