I think my bf is not totally on bored with my pregnAncy. He has been getting super agitated lately sometimes I'll say something and he'll completely ignore me and when I repeat it he says he heard me and will get an attitude when he answers. He does like to talk about it much n blames me for getting pregnant like I did it my self.... I'm starting to think he is mad at me for getting pregnant I kno he's stressing but I have that same stress plus an extra twenty pounds... (Drops mic) had to vent😟
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but i think he's just scared/pressured. Any other dad would be, with taking on so much responsibility. Once he sees the baby open his eyes he'll fall in love and thank you.
so maybe you should address him and say i don't like the way you've been acting lately it's not fair to me and it's definitely not fair to our baby do you wanna be the daddy or not.
After a few days he said he was far from scared and now all we do is talk about the baby and watch movies on how to take care of it and show our excitement.
my mom said that my dad did the same thing but once he saw me he was as happy as could be... i don't talk to him anymore because aside from his happiness he was a lazy dead beat. For a spit second my fiance did that when i told him i was pregnant. i was like "ooh no, you wanna act differently then i will too, I'll take care of the baby myself!" he changed his whole mood he was like nnoooo I'm not blaming you I just really didn't see this coming. I do want to be in this babys life I already love you and the baby I'm just shocked and scared.
Try and work it out.. Same thing was going on with my and my bf and we broke up during my pregnancy.. And it's not easy girl with the heartbreak plus the hormones.. I cry almost everyday..
I'm sorry ur going thru this, that must be rough. A baby is a big change but it's really a blessing. I'm sure that if he does feel like that now, he will have a change of heart once he has that little baby in his arms and thank you for giving him the greatest gift ever. U just keep it pushing and stay positive for u and baby.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Very similar to what I go thru. Dealing with a pregnant woman is hard! Sometimes give him a little credit.