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So dealing with the fact tht my SO won't be here at for my pregnancy he's goin to miss everything !! This is our first…

So dealing with the fact tht my SO won't be here at for my pregnancy he's goin to miss everything !! This is our first child together nd i feel like he should really be here for it all..buh he got a job ona cruise line..he's gone for 5mths and here for 5wks-I feel like thts nothin at all..he leaves nxt Monday and won't be bak until May..I'll be in my third trimester by then nd then he leaves after those 5wks (which I'm starting to think I'll have my baby shower then instead of waiting til July like I planned) but then he won't be bak until October nd I'm due August 22 !!! I'm not sure he's gon be able to get tht wk,day,or month off to get bak in town to be here with me when it's time..he's stationed to be all the way in Hawaii..nd I really didn't grow up wit my dad around 24/7 nd I didn't want my child to have to go thru tht buh it seems like I can't change tht either..he has the dream to be a merchant seaman so being on the ship will help greatly towards his career nd I'm not the one to stop him frm doing something thts helpful towards his life n career n I really want the best for him..so I want him to go I'm not keeping him here buh my feelings want me to say otherwise so he can be here physically..I don't wanna seem like I'm a single mom n he's a deadbeat dad who ran frm responsibility or sumthin cause thts not it..buh I jus have mixed feelings towards it all but I will jus have to be in this alone n depend on God to get me thru it...everyone says while he's gone they will stand in his spot n be here for me buh they aren't him n I really could careless for they help n attention like I want his..I jus don kno !!

So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him…

So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my…

Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my baby's father and I are together, when we met and I got pregnant he was here working, he went back to work out of town after I found out I was pregnant and only comes back once a month, he supports me financially, which was mostly his choice bc he makes good money, we are doing fine on money.. but I'm almost 31 weeks and as I get closer I'm really worried about raising my daughter on my own, he plans to continue to come back only once a month even when she is born and it really scares me, even though I know we will need the money since I won't be working, I still feel like I'm going to be alone raising our daughter, when we talk about it all he has to say is he doesn't see any other way, but he's never lived here, let alone had a job here, and I know of so many places where he could get a job easily when he's here for one of his monthly visits and he just keeps saying that he can't quit his job and move here without having a stable job, and I keep telling him he can,find a job before he quits this one, but yet he's not even trying to find a job when he's here, he hasnt researched job openings or called anywhere, sometimes I feel like he's just comfortable with what is happening and it really hurts me to think about my daughter not having him here, and raising her alone, for one he's never been around a baby, doesnt have a clue how to raise one, and has never even HELD a baby, so I feel like if he only comes back once a month then he's never going to learn how to help with her, let alone know her, and her recognize him when he is here... every time we talk about it, it just turns into an argument and I'm to the point where I feel like I'm wasting my breathe... I just really don't know what to do, I'm scared, and need help and I feel like he doesn't wanna risk anything by moving here when I really need him. am I overreacting??? btw don't get me wrong, I'm beyond grateful for him, with everything he does, and all the financial support he provides, but I've never been "taken care of" (for lack of better words) and I would rather work too, just to have him here to help me and be with his daughter and sometimes I feel like that's not an option to him... it's really depressing me and scaring me. don't be afraid to tell me if I sound like a spoiled bitch or something, I honestly need yalls HONEST OPINION. 😞

Are there learning programs for the summer for 1st graders?? I'm so sad my son has failed and he will be in 1st grade…

Are there learning programs for the summer for 1st graders?? I'm so sad my son has failed and he will be in 1st grade again. 😭😭 he has learning disabilities but I feel like he takes advantage of that and he always wants to be playing and on the phone all the time like I'm so over it! I try my best to teach him and it's like he completely doesn't care and he's only 7years old.. Smh idk what to do.