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Rebekah Lee
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I'm really pissed off. My dad called and immediately started yelling at me like I did something wrong and trying to tell…

I'm really pissed off. My dad called and immediately started yelling at me like I did something wrong and trying to tell me how to raise my kid and trying to control my pregnancy because I applied for government assistance Because I can't afford certain stuff and I want help learning how to raise my kid in a better way than I was an more like food stamps and my social worker. I was ignored and abused and neglected in just about every imaginable. I'm NOT going to have my kid feel the same way I did my entire life.

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joanna290

joanna

@love_music014, ok :)

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kaity0117

KaitlinВ ожидании первенца

You need to do what is right for you and your child. Your father and everyone else in the world doesn't have a say unless you are harming your child. Which is sounds like you are trying to avoid doing that. Tell your dad that he had his chance to raise a child when you were little but now this is YOUR kid and if he can't respect you as a mother and let you make your choices (whether it leads to a mistake or not) it is your choice to make. Stand your ground otherwise he will probably try to push into the decisions that he thinks are right... I have told everyone in my family that me and my bf are making the decisions and they can make gentle suggestions but they don't the final say.

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love_music014

Rebekah Lee

@joanna290, please email me @ jacie12017@gmail.com

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joanna290

joanna

@love_music014, I dont understand why some parents have so much pride.. if they arent in a situation or willing to help you how dare fhey speak on what you are doing to provide for yourself.. sometimes we fall on hard times.. we need a little help.. stay strong hope things get better for u.. everyone needs a stepping stone..

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Do you really think the way you are raised

Do you really think the way you are raised Has no impact on when and how you decide to have sex? I read a comment on another thread that really rubbed me the wrong way. Something about how teens have sex and there's just no stopping it no matter how you raise them.