I bought a new car yesterday. I needed it but I can’t help losing sleep due to the fact I dipped into my savings. Being in an abusive relationship in the past has caused me to be petrified of feeling stuck and dependent again. I have the money for it. But one side of my brain is saying I need X amount of dollars in the bank to “be free”. The thing is: even with the money in the account I didn’t feel fully free. I feel constantly haunted by my past and have become frugal with my money out of fear. I am hoping eventually the experience of a new car that is safe and dependable will help me overcome the negative feelings.
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That’s what I keep trying to tell myself! It’s nice to hear it from someone else.
Yay for the new car. You got this, you’re dependable on yourself, not anyone else. I feel this in my whole soul though.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
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Fitness/weight loss | @jgrue...
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Our new group this week is:
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Hey Moms,
Here is the full list of groups! Please tag the admin in the comments below to be added. Thank you to all the moms leading these groups.
Group Name Admin
Postpartum Depression @Heera
Fitness/weight loss @jgruenwald
Miscarriage and Loss @bri92
Couponing @aydans.mommy
NICU @scottiesmommy
Domestic Violence @smilingwithmyawesome4kids
Kids with special needs @smilingwithmyawesome4kids
Car sear safety @santistevanmommie
Babywea...
One thing you need to remember is that you're insanely employable with your job. Between prn or taking a job at a nursing home, you will never be more than 2-3 weeks from getting a paycheck. It may be a setting or building that you don't want to work, but you could do it temporarily. SLP is insanely employable. You've got this and no one can ever take it from you.