Okay ladies I need advice. My husband came home from work a few weeks ago and decided he no longer wanted to be a husband or father. He told me that the kids and I need to leave and if we dont he will no longer pay the Bill's. I am unable to work because of high risk pregnancy. My only option is to move back to ohio and stay with my parents. (We live in Kentucky now) also last weekend I was admitted to the hospital and he was home with the kids...he decided to just walk out and leave them home alone while he went to hang with friends. I'm livid and to the point where I want my children away from him and myself too. Am I wrong for moving so far away?
So I wanted to name my daughter Serenity & then my brother & parents called me after they had a whole house meeting saying the name “wouldn’t get her a job”.. now I’m back to square one 🙄
I don’t think we would have been able to move if I didn’t have my stay at home job, we would still be in a neighborhood with our house getting broken into. I’m so thankful and blessed to have found a legit home job so my kids don’t have to go to day care, counting my blessings daily
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Kayla ·
Honestly it’s just something over time you will get use to. My husband works night a lot and I was scared to be home alone and now it almost feels normal. I also though had a security camera set up so if any motion ect was detected outside I would know just for safety.
M.·
I went through this when my husband and I "took a break" years ago, although I deal with anxiety daily despite that happening) it just takes some getting used too! Sounds easier said than done, because it is just that, it will take awhile love, but you will get there. Idk how long you 2 were together, but change is hard on everyone! I promise, YOU GOT THIS! Take deep breaths and relax, all is gonna work out exactly how it needs to be and your gonna be just peachy❤
Osito Panda·
I did. My house was broken into back in June 2019 an we were all asleep an not even the dog heard him. We have camera around the house an he still manage to break in. I had a 3 month old at the time an pump every 2 hours so he came when I just knock out so since then I hate being home alone. My dh has been away from home a lot of time since then. I lock both storm doors an we have sensor lights all around the house. First times I stay up watching the camera all night now i got use to it an sleep ok when he's away.
Little Mommy ··
Holy crap! I would never sleep again
Osito Panda··
thats what I thought but after awhile my anxiety got better. I just make sure I was home before dark an lock all storms doors. I think theirs some censors you could put around your house to let you know when someone come too close to the house. I think i would add that with my censor lights an cameras. He broke in thru a window so we were planning to put censors on all windows. That jerk came back an check that same window a lil over a month later an detective was very surprised he came back. He said they usually don't come back to the same place twice. But he did break into my neighbors house that night an their dog didn't hear him either.
Icebergahead·
Мама сына (9 лет)
I never did but I have lived alone prior to having a family. I got used to it plus I had a dog at the time, made it feel less lonely at times.
Little Mommy ··
My dogs are sleeping in the bed with me now… they are assholes but they really are good snuggles and that def helps my anxiety
Icebergahead··
Мама сына (9 лет)
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