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Sarah Trust
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‼ 🚨rant alert ‼ 🚨 My bf and I been together for 5 years we never really seen eye too eye about things but that’s Whts…

‼️🚨rant alert ‼️🚨

My bf and I been together for 5 years we never really seen eye too eye about things but that’s Whts happens in a relationship you talk about it and come to a compromise right?

Well b4 covid I was working at a very nice hair salon I loved it there it was a bit stressful cause our parents meaning his mother and my mother both have back issues but we tried to make something work and that was all fine in March where things were so bad his family still wanted to do things and we’ll so did I I didn’t want to think about it or read about it it was depressing and then it got worse in The following months so I decided well my family is high risk and that was selfish of me to not just think about my well-being but of my family and his family so I decided to quit my job cause of covid cauee I’m working on ppls head my sister and mother and her bf r very high risk going forward few more month around the holidays his family thinking I’m some evil person cause I said no I won’t bring my family to large family gathering Halloween bf wanted me to go and I did and his mother bombarded me about the decision I mad that I won’t bring Cora into other ppls house why am I the evil person for protecting my family not only have the deemed me an evil person but they have told my bf to break up with me lol cauee I’m lazy and I’m not I clean up after everyone they have seem out apartment look like a mess but that’s because it’s always been on me and I don’t keep up with it my bf doesn’t help he calls helping wrk I made dinner u should be greatful that he puts a roof over my head and pays for my car insurance and I’m aye for my phone but he doesn’t clean up after him self and there’s more to a relationship then telling ur so called (partner ) well if I do this u have to do everything I say ugggh all I’m saying is there’s 2 sides to this story and his family just hears his side and this is absolutely frustrating I’ve tried to do therapy for the sake of our daughter in to see if this can work but his mother around I think it was Thanksgiving has told him why are you listening to therapist u should be listening to family and then we never had therapy again cause his mom didn’t like Wht our therapist said some distance would be beneficial cause how our families r

I’m trying so hard to keep everyone happy try and work on my relationship but at the same time I’m be littled by his family being told I’m trying to get between them and that’s joy true I am distancing myself from them because how rude and awful and belittle they have been towards me

Idk I’m just so annoyed and so hurt they justin because it’s his family he doesn’t stick up for me it’s frustrating

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aliciaandmy4

Boss Momma

Многодетная мама (5 детей)

I totally feel you ... my in laws all think I’m “evil” and “negative” WHICH IM FAR FROM 😑 but they hear the bs from him and run with it and guess what ... I DONT GIVE A FUUCK!!! 👏🏼👏🏼 they can think what they want. They apparently “know” me because the fuck shit they say I just ignore em 😬 I try my hardest 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m just not tryna fuck up another bitches shit 🤣🤣

sarahtrust16

Sarah Trust

Мама дочки (2 года)

Am I in the wrong for saying no why should I let them see her when that nothing but Parade me

aliciaandmy4

Boss Momma

Многодетная мама (5 детей)

I wouldn’t for a while I’m petty 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’d be like well I’m “evil” well I’m the person who raises my children ... so I guess my “evilness” is all over them 🤣🙃

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