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Joy2017

My husband takes his cousin girlfriend to work. Should I be worried about the FEMALE coming on to my husband?

My husband takes his cousin girlfriend to work. Should I be worried about the FEMALE coming on to my husband?

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somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)

If you’re gonna have a full cheaters set up in your house or car there’s no point to even continue the relationship. If you’re having doubts or questions you have to be upfront about your feelings.

queenmeeks

Queen Meeks

Мама дочки (2 года)

This sounds really unhealthy and insecure. Why would you be mad about this?

joy2017

Joy2017

I don't know the girl at all and neither do my husband and she got with my husband cousin the year 2017

joy2017

Joy2017

I'm worried about both. My sister likes to hit on every guy she see. It was one day she stayed at my other sister house and her man came over and he came on to her because she likes to flirt. Then it was time when I was with a group of people and they said you have to be careful who ride and your car they will put drugs in your car.

queenmeeks

Queen Meeks

Мама дочки (2 года)

so are you worried about her hitting on your husband or are you worried about his safety? Your comment is saying one thing and your post is saying another. Do you have trust issues or a history of cheating with your husband?

joy2017

Joy2017

I had to fix my status. I'm worried because I don't know her and to me she is a stranger. It's not just about my husband getting caught up. I love my husband I want to make sure that he's safe

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xoxochelsey

Chelsey

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

Then she would be walking to work. If they don't have a car that's their problem not y'alls. I'd tell them if they can work they can make a car payment. Time to put your foot down girl. If you don't like it then it shouldn't be happening simple as that.

xoxochelsey

Chelsey

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@joy2017 you're welcome! If you ever need someone to talk to or vent too just message me 🙂

joy2017

Joy2017

ok you do the same

joy2017

Joy2017

ok you do the same

xoxochelsey

Chelsey

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

Why can't her own bf give her a ride to work? I wouldn't let my husband drive some over girl to work. I trust him, I just don't trust hoes 🤷

joy2017

Joy2017

Exactly I don't know the girl and my husband don't either. They don't have a car

jacqueline.garth

SB

Мама троих детей

I trust my husband 100% but I would still be uncomfortable. It would be different if you knew the woman well or if she and your cousin were married (then she’d be family). But as of right now she sounds as familiar as a stranger off the street. But that’s just me 😁

joy2017

Joy2017

Nobody understands me guess I'm mental and don't have faith in my husband. Anything can happen in this world you don't live in this world and just think about the good.... When it comes to your husband and children you have to cautious.

penelope127

Penelope

Мама сына-младенца

What if you were bringing your cousin’s boyfriend somewhere? Would your husband freak out like this?

joy2017

Joy2017

He said he wouldn't like it

amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (13 нед.)

If you know your husband and trust him then there shouldn’t be anything to worry about. Women come on to my husband ALL the time but my husband doesn’t give them the time of day so I never worry about him.

lii94

Lisa

Мама сына-младенца

Okay so

Now thats ive read all the comments while enjoying popcorn.

1. No i wouldn't be mad or uncomfortable as i trust my husband. Girls have literally hit on him while I'm across the room and he comes to get me and introduces me. So trust is 100% there.

If you trust HIM who gives a flying shit if a woman throws herself at him if he rejects her right away.

2. Please do NOT listen to any spy cam or listening devices or w.e was suggested. If he finds them he will lose all trust in YOU. And if you really trust him you don't need one.

3. Wow. Ladies. Chilllllll

4. Please seak help. I have and im very thankful for myself being kind to the one and only: me. I was still having a hard time cooping with my miscarriage and spoke with someone.

5. I also know friend who lost her husband to their 18y old babysitter. Yes. When looking for a casual sitter to go out for supper and date nights the thought crosses my mind but i don't go crazy just because it happened to someone else. Yes it may happen to me cause the future is unknown but hell if hes sleezy enough to fall for it hes losing a good wife 💁‍♀️

joy2017

Joy2017

Great comment and great wisdom!

lii94

Lisa

Мама сына-младенца

mhbb29

Melissa

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)

Why does everyone always blame the woman for being trashy or skanky? The men sleeping with them are skanky too. It's not like they are mindless penises. They have a choice too!

joy2017

Joy2017

@joy2017 I just want him to be safe and we always be happy together

pr1nc3sslauren

Lauren

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)

it’s hard sometimes because you love someone THAT much. You want what’s best for them, always. But you do have to remember he is grown and his own person. Nothing you say or do will stop him from making his own decision in the end.. wether it be good or bad. You can’t control people, or the situations they are sometimes in no matter how much you want to. Like I said, I get it. It comes from love but I promise you will be much happier if you let that ish go and trust that this man loves you as much as you love him and would make the right decisions if ever put in a bad situation.

joy2017

Joy2017

You are so right

j.family1215

Juju Babes

Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

Girl in my bd religion i wouldn't even trust his female cousins some marry eachother ...i dnt trusr no female lol

joy2017

Joy2017

Exactly

joy2017

Joy2017

Just saw a post on Facebook how someone husband slept with his mother law.

queenmeeks

Queen Meeks

Мама дочки (2 года)

Awwww the hella extra broad is mad at me opposing her commentary so she blocked me. Boo hoo! What a loss! Not. 😂

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)

Now y’all have history! 😂😂😂

queenmeeks

Queen Meeks

Мама дочки (2 года)

@amouryaya09, we sure do! She was clearly pressed about someone opposing her whack opinion 😂

joy2017

Joy2017

Thank you ladies for your response

liamandlukesmommy22

Rachel Mitchell

@gimini85 True I just thought it was funny how you were talking trash until you realized she could see it😏

liamandlukesmommy22

Rachel Mitchell

@bitchcraft 😂you must have done something if she still remembers it. You probably said something honest or true and like a lot of these ladies on this app she was offended

del_1551893290_bitchcraft

Deleted

@ljsmommy22, I just went through all her posts to see if I can remember. I still have no clue. LMAO

mb2424

Melissa

Мама троих детей

@bitchcraft, was it car seat safety? 😏😏

liamandlukesmommy22

Rachel Mitchell

@gimini85 Looool your comment about @bitchcraft was a lot harsher than the one directed to her🙄🐓

mhbb29

Melissa

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)

I dont get why people ask others how they should feel.

Are you mad? Has he betrayed your trust? How do YOU feel?

mhbb29

Melissa

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)

@joy2017 There is no special way to feel. They are feelings. Whatever you are feeling is what it is. If you don't like feeling that way you have to cut out whoever ir whatever brings those feelings on.

joy2017

Joy2017

@spookylyn You're are definitely right and I will thanks allot💙

joy2017

Joy2017

@spookylyn Thanks really never thought about that

morganavery3

Morgan Avery

Мама сына-младенца

Nope wouldn’t care

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)

If you’re gonna have a full cheaters set up in your house or car there’s no point to even continue the relationship. If you’re having doubts or questions you have to be upfront about your feelings.

olivbee

Olivia

Мама двоих (1 год, 8 лет)

At face value this shouldn’t be upsetting. If there are trust issues in your relationship or if you don’t know or trust the cousins girlfriend then maybe have a convo with your husband about this but don’t assume the worst.

briannalynn547

Brianna Montgomery

Мама сына-младенца

No. Lol . This is how my sister in law is , but with her own cousin . This is what drive us woman crazy . Gotta stop being so insecure girl !

joy2017

Joy2017

I'm not insecure I have faith in my husband I just don't know the girl he's riding with and I'm worried about the situation

queenmeeks

Queen Meeks

Мама дочки (2 года)

This sounds really unhealthy and insecure. Why would you be mad about this?

queenmeeks

Queen Meeks

Мама дочки (2 года)

@joy2017, so are you worried about her hitting on your husband or are you worried about his safety? Your comment is saying one thing and your post is saying another. Do you have trust issues or a history of cheating with your husband?

joy2017

Joy2017

I'm worried about both. My sister likes to hit on every guy she see. It was one day she stayed at my other sister house and her man came over and he came on to her because she likes to flirt. Then it was time when I was with a group of people and they said you have to be careful who ride and your car they will put drugs in your car.

joy2017

Joy2017

I don't know the girl at all and neither do my husband and she got with my husband cousin the year 2017

a.mama22

A

Мама двоих (младенец)

I wouldn’t be upset about that. I trust my husband. He can be around other girls. I might be annoyed though if it was a permanent situation. She better be pitching in for gas.

mrsmord

Lori 🍕

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

If your man is the type to flirt and play around with other woman . Yes I’d be worried . And depending on how long the car ride is .

joy2017

Joy2017

See it's the other way around I'm worried about. Like my sister was at my other sister house why she wasn't home and her boyfriend came home my sisters was doing all kinds of things so he came on to her.

del_1569898359_seacabo

Deleted

I feel like if that’s something that makes you mad, there are trust issues beyond a simple ride to work. To me, that’s family.

joy2017

Joy2017

It seems like a simple ride to work to me to I'm not worried about my husband. I had dream a girl came on to my husband and he could not resist it. I left my husband and the dream but I remember my family telling me it was not his fault because the girl kept trying him.

joy2017

Joy2017

I have faith in my husband it's just that I don't know the girl and I know that she's only been with my husband cousin for a year. People are crazy these days.

kambam

kammy

Мама сына (2 года)

Um no? Who's supposed to ride with them? Theyre adults

joy2017

Joy2017

I don't trust people at all! My first thought is she a prostitute crackhead Thief murderer this world is crazy so it's just like you have kids you wonder who is around your child

kambam

kammy

Мама сына (2 года)

oh well being murdered is definitely a concern lmao. But hopefully you trust his cousin to not bring that type around.

joy2017

Joy2017

@spookylyn I have faith and my husband but I don't trust in nobody that's why I'm very cautious when it comes to people. So many people are dead rape in jail all because they trusted someone

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)

It depends on why you would be upset. I can’t tell you how to feel. Lol

joy2017

Joy2017

I have faith in my husband but the girl only been with my husband cousin for a year. I worry about her being one of those females that throw their self on married men and then they can't help it.

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)

if that’s your worry he shouldn’t give her rides anymore. It could be something and it could be nothing but at the end of the day it’s your husband. You say how things are supposed to go.

joy2017

Joy2017

@amouryaya09 Thank appreciate