My husband takes his cousin girlfriend to work. Should I be worried about the FEMALE coming on to my husband?
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This sounds really unhealthy and insecure. Why would you be mad about this?
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Then she would be walking to work. If they don't have a car that's their problem not y'alls. I'd tell them if they can work they can make a car payment. Time to put your foot down girl. If you don't like it then it shouldn't be happening simple as that.
@joy2017 you're welcome! If you ever need someone to talk to or vent too just message me 🙂
Why can't her own bf give her a ride to work? I wouldn't let my husband drive some over girl to work. I trust him, I just don't trust hoes 🤷
Exactly I don't know the girl and my husband don't either. They don't have a car
I trust my husband 100% but I would still be uncomfortable. It would be different if you knew the woman well or if she and your cousin were married (then she’d be family). But as of right now she sounds as familiar as a stranger off the street. But that’s just me 😁
Nobody understands me guess I'm mental and don't have faith in my husband. Anything can happen in this world you don't live in this world and just think about the good.... When it comes to your husband and children you have to cautious.
What if you were bringing your cousin’s boyfriend somewhere? Would your husband freak out like this?
If you know your husband and trust him then there shouldn’t be anything to worry about. Women come on to my husband ALL the time but my husband doesn’t give them the time of day so I never worry about him.
Okay so
Now thats ive read all the comments while enjoying popcorn.
1. No i wouldn't be mad or uncomfortable as i trust my husband. Girls have literally hit on him while I'm across the room and he comes to get me and introduces me. So trust is 100% there.
If you trust HIM who gives a flying shit if a woman throws herself at him if he rejects her right away.
2. Please do NOT listen to any spy cam or listening devices or w.e was suggested. If he finds them he will lose all trust in YOU. And if you really trust him you don't need one.
3. Wow. Ladies. Chilllllll
4. Please seak help. I have and im very thankful for myself being kind to the one and only: me. I was still having a hard time cooping with my miscarriage and spoke with someone.
5. I also know friend who lost her husband to their 18y old babysitter. Yes. When looking for a casual sitter to go out for supper and date nights the thought crosses my mind but i don't go crazy just because it happened to someone else. Yes it may happen to me cause the future is unknown but hell if hes sleezy enough to fall for it hes losing a good wife 💁♀️
Why does everyone always blame the woman for being trashy or skanky? The men sleeping with them are skanky too. It's not like they are mindless penises. They have a choice too!
@joy2017, it’s hard sometimes because you love someone THAT much. You want what’s best for them, always. But you do have to remember he is grown and his own person. Nothing you say or do will stop him from making his own decision in the end.. wether it be good or bad. You can’t control people, or the situations they are sometimes in no matter how much you want to. Like I said, I get it. It comes from love but I promise you will be much happier if you let that ish go and trust that this man loves you as much as you love him and would make the right decisions if ever put in a bad situation.
Girl in my bd religion i wouldn't even trust his female cousins some marry eachother ...i dnt trusr no female lol
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I dont get why people ask others how they should feel.
Are you mad? Has he betrayed your trust? How do YOU feel?
@joy2017 There is no special way to feel. They are feelings. Whatever you are feeling is what it is. If you don't like feeling that way you have to cut out whoever ir whatever brings those feelings on.
If you’re gonna have a full cheaters set up in your house or car there’s no point to even continue the relationship. If you’re having doubts or questions you have to be upfront about your feelings.
At face value this shouldn’t be upsetting. If there are trust issues in your relationship or if you don’t know or trust the cousins girlfriend then maybe have a convo with your husband about this but don’t assume the worst.
No. Lol . This is how my sister in law is , but with her own cousin . This is what drive us woman crazy . Gotta stop being so insecure girl !
I'm not insecure I have faith in my husband I just don't know the girl he's riding with and I'm worried about the situation
This sounds really unhealthy and insecure. Why would you be mad about this?
@joy2017, so are you worried about her hitting on your husband or are you worried about his safety? Your comment is saying one thing and your post is saying another. Do you have trust issues or a history of cheating with your husband?
@queenmeeks I'm worried about both. My sister likes to hit on every guy she see. It was one day she stayed at my other sister house and her man came over and he came on to her because she likes to flirt. Then it was time when I was with a group of people and they said you have to be careful who ride and your car they will put drugs in your car.
@queenmeeks I don't know the girl at all and neither do my husband and she got with my husband cousin the year 2017
I wouldn’t be upset about that. I trust my husband. He can be around other girls. I might be annoyed though if it was a permanent situation. She better be pitching in for gas.
If your man is the type to flirt and play around with other woman . Yes I’d be worried . And depending on how long the car ride is .
See it's the other way around I'm worried about. Like my sister was at my other sister house why she wasn't home and her boyfriend came home my sisters was doing all kinds of things so he came on to her.
I feel like if that’s something that makes you mad, there are trust issues beyond a simple ride to work. To me, that’s family.
It seems like a simple ride to work to me to I'm not worried about my husband. I had dream a girl came on to my husband and he could not resist it. I left my husband and the dream but I remember my family telling me it was not his fault because the girl kept trying him.
I have faith in my husband it's just that I don't know the girl and I know that she's only been with my husband cousin for a year. People are crazy these days.
I don't trust people at all! My first thought is she a prostitute crackhead Thief murderer this world is crazy so it's just like you have kids you wonder who is around your child
@joy2017 oh well being murdered is definitely a concern lmao. But hopefully you trust his cousin to not bring that type around.
@spookylyn I have faith and my husband but I don't trust in nobody that's why I'm very cautious when it comes to people. So many people are dead rape in jail all because they trusted someone
It depends on why you would be upset. I can’t tell you how to feel. Lol
I have faith in my husband but the girl only been with my husband cousin for a year. I worry about her being one of those females that throw their self on married men and then they can't help it.
@joy2017, if that’s your worry he shouldn’t give her rides anymore. It could be something and it could be nothing but at the end of the day it’s your husband. You say how things are supposed to go.
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If you’re gonna have a full cheaters set up in your house or car there’s no point to even continue the relationship. If you’re having doubts or questions you have to be upfront about your feelings.