So at first we were baby making & he was all in. Now it’s if it happens it happens I’m so over playing these mind games with my husband over it! So now I don’t even want to try anymore. Because he clearly quit trying
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Not only has he not responded, now I have to sit here worrying if something happened 😣😒
We’ve been trying to get pregnant since June, and it finally happened! He seems distant now though. Like wtf? We’re married and have been trying so hard to make this happen and now that it happened he doesn’t care? Men are ridiculous sometimes. Some support would be nice.
I have been trying so hard to be calm, and nice. This morning though, my fiancès son decided to spit at me and hit me. This is constant with the hitting, the spitting is new. We've both tried sitting and talking to him, time outs, cry it out, try to avoid spanking as much as possible but it has happened. No form of discipline works with him. He hits me, he hits his dad, he hits my son. I'm so afraid of what's going to happen come May when the baby is born. Is he going to try and hurt our baby? What's going to happen? We've both stuck with following the same discipline routines, and sticking with what he or I say. I don't know what to do. I'm so frustrated, I'm so broken. I just want to cry and hide.
So proud of my little man I showed him he could hold his head up now he is trying to crawl and he can roll over!!! #proudmama #stopgrowingupsofast
Heather ·
Мама четверых детей
My SO did this exact thing to me. Now I have zero interest in having another child with him. I don’t have time for the mind games so I’m done.
chadria··
Мама дочки (4 года)
Same here because that’s exactly what it is mind games & it’s exhausting & confusing
Heather ··
Мама четверых детей
now he feels some type of way because I have no interest in it anymore. The whole thing has me so turned off that I just don’t want to have sex at all.
chadria··
Мама дочки (4 года)
that’s exactly where I am at this point I have no interest
JenX·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
Guys can show stress differently with ttc. They really feel it's their fault, they aren't manly enough to give you the baby you want, and the stress can make them push you away and not want to have sex.
Maybe take a little break, maybe have sex outside your ovulation window just for fun. Not make it work. Don't tell him you're ovulating when you are.
Sending you lots of love and baby dust from someone who has been there. <3
chadria··
Мама дочки (4 года)
It’s not that even when we have sex he pulls out & I haven’t been forcing him or telling him when I’ve ovulated
Li.·
Мама сына (1 год)
I understand how that can be stressful how long have you guys been trying? Have you asked him why he all of a sudden has an it is what it is attitude?
chadria··
Мама дочки (4 года)
He’s been had the attitude I feel like he only agreed because it’s what I want. He never wants to talk about it& I already had to go through this with getting our daughter. I don’t want it to feel forced again
Li.··
Мама сына (1 год)
yeah that’s frustrating and didn’t sound good for the mental
chadria··
Мама дочки (4 года)
definitely not