So at first we were baby making & he was all in. Now it’s if it happens it happens I’m so over playing these mind games with my husband over it! So now I don’t even want to try anymore. Because he clearly quit trying
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Same here because that’s exactly what it is mind games & it’s exhausting & confusing
@imanimomma, now he feels some type of way because I have no interest in it anymore. The whole thing has me so turned off that I just don’t want to have sex at all.
@missheatherbaby, that’s exactly where I am at this point I have no interest
Guys can show stress differently with ttc. They really feel it's their fault, they aren't manly enough to give you the baby you want, and the stress can make them push you away and not want to have sex.
Maybe take a little break, maybe have sex outside your ovulation window just for fun. Not make it work. Don't tell him you're ovulating when you are.
Sending you lots of love and baby dust from someone who has been there. <3
It’s not that even when we have sex he pulls out & I haven’t been forcing him or telling him when I’ve ovulated
I understand how that can be stressful how long have you guys been trying? Have you asked him why he all of a sudden has an it is what it is attitude?
He’s been had the attitude I feel like he only agreed because it’s what I want. He never wants to talk about it& I already had to go through this with getting our daughter. I don’t want it to feel forced again
@imanimomma, yeah that’s frustrating and didn’t sound good for the mental
My SO did this exact thing to me. Now I have zero interest in having another child with him. I don’t have time for the mind games so I’m done.