Addee Alverson
addeeisme
Addee Alverson·Мама сына (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

We’ve been trying to get pregnant since June, and it finally happened! He seems distant now though. Like wtf? We’re married and have been trying so hard to make this happen and now that it happened he doesn’t care? Men are ridiculous sometimes. Some support would be nice.

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proundmommyofone
Kaleen·Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (22 нед.)

When I told my bf I was pregnant it was the opposite, he was more happy then me tbh idk why i just was going through a lot at the time me and my bf were trying for 5 years and some change and within 3 miscarriages I guess I got in my head it wasn’t going to happen so I stopped trying for a baby after I decided I got pregnant like 2 months after let’s not forget I was taking Birthcontrol it took awhile to let it sink in 😑 even taking test back to back and seeing the baby on the ultrasound still didn’t really sink in until like 12 weeks 😏 give him time maybe he don’t know how to feel just yet he will be alright 😁

Congratulations 💗

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addeeisme
Addee Alverson·Мама сына (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

Very true. Thank you!

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raisingblueyedbabiesx2
Dusty ·Мама троих детей

Sometimes it takes men longer then us it takes time to set it he isn't pregnant it's different for them give him see time uv only been pregnant for like a day congratulations tho

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addeeisme
Addee Alverson·Мама сына (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

In technicality I’ve been pregnant for 5 weeks but thanks

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raisingblueyedbabiesx2
Dusty ·Мама троих детей

@addeeisme I wasn't being a dick, just saying give him some time

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deborahjq

He might be scared to get excited given that it's the start of the pregnancy.

He might just now be realizing that a child is being brought into the world and his thoughts are on how crazy the world is.

He might be questioning whether or not he'll be a good father.

Or he just might be in a state of shock.

Lots of possibilities, but I hope he communicates and shares them with you. Sometimes getting something off your chest is just as good as getting a solution to a problem.

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jordanalison
Jordan Alison Brown Newbern·Мама сына (1 год)

Congratulations!! I don’t know what to say about the your man thing, though.

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addeeisme
Addee Alverson·Мама сына (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

Lol I don’t either! Thank you!

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2sweetie
Melinda Westad·Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

Also, congrats! Happy for you that it finally happened!

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addeeisme
Addee Alverson·Мама сына (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)

Good point. Thank you! I’m so excited

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2sweetie
Melinda Westad·Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

Men don’t usually feel an attachment to an unborn baby, like women do. You’re barely pregnant and he hasn’t experienced anything yet so it’s not real for him yet. My husband was the same way with our second. He pretty much didn’t treat me any differently and wasn’t very into the pregnancy like I was. Just try not to let it bother you and include him anyway even though it’s not a big deal for him. Once the baby comes he will be in love!

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