I call my babys everyday on video chat. Yesterday when I was talking to them my mom said she was thinking she would bring them back after or in September when I have the baby. 😶 I myself would rather her bring them back already September too is far away. I know they are safe and having fun but I miss them. I told her I would talk to hubby So I did . I asked him when he would like the babys back this MF said she can keep them til next year 🤦♀️😂. Obviously he's enjoying this time. I told him what she said n he was like that would be fine that it's good because it gives us more time to prepare for baby and we don't have to worry about his my keeping all are kids when we go to the hospital. Soooooo I guess they win 😒 but I'm so bored without my kids.
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My sister and I used to stay with my grandparents for months at a time. It was pretty awesome honestly
@imacat, lol, I don’t remember how old I was but my grandmother used to take me on vacation with her for weeks at a time as well.
@albertrettazariah1386 no, it didn't bother us. If we'd ever wanted to come home my parents would have come or my grandparents would have taken us home. I was probably 5 or 6
@albertrettazariah1386 Your children are enjoying themselves and that says a lot about how they are being cared for. I had to live with relatives when was just around 8 and it was NOT a good experience for me. But it cannot be compared. Everything will be ok for you!!!
My heart is sad for you and I don't understand why she has them for such an extended time frame. The 3 year old especially. They grow and develop so much and the bond they will have with their grandmother is going to make it really hard for them to adjust back to you by yourself, let alone with a new baby. Why not have them go to grandma for a few days or weeks when the new baby comes? Or have grandma come to you so you can have the help but be all together???
@albertrettazariah1386 Can you join the children at her house until you get closer to your due date? If it's safer for them there then it is safer for you, too! Where do you live? Where is grandmother? I'm so sorry you're in such a position to make this choice.
@xryztalroze no I can't or I would have been gone. I'm in san antonio tx , my mother is in burkeville tx.
@albertrettazariah1386 Well then just have a strong heart and know they are in the very best place with the very best person you could ask for them to be with. She loved you and raised you and helped you to be the person and mother you are so they will have a special memory of being with Grandma. Everything will work out and the most important thing is that they have love and security. Best of wishes!!!!!
Why does you mom have your kids for such a long time? I can barely go a long weekend without mine, even though they drive me crazy.
@love_linds, I’ve let my oldest stay a weekend with my mom. Lol she was done after that
@littleonemorning, my oldest has stayed at my MIL’s a few time but we drop him off about 2hrs before bedtime & come get him by lunch the next day. He’s not there for long. Lol
@love_linds, one time was because I was having my youngest. My mom doesn’t have the energy to take care of the crazies anymore. Lol she always “offers” but I know it’s too much
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