I have a rant I will get off my chest. Why is it that, I feel like no one gives some women the credit they deserve for…
I have a rant I will get off my chest. Why is it that, I feel like no one gives some women the credit they deserve for being strong? For example when things didn’t work out with my sons father, I had a lot of flack at the time to continue on with the pregnancy and be a single mom. I was depressed that it didn’t work at the time and I loved him but he obviously didn’t want anything to do with me and my son. He wasn’t a good guy like I thought. Anyway, if I fast forward today, why is it that so many people these days want to kill themselves over their relationship not working out? It’s some of the same women that gave me flack back then when I was a single mom. They were against the pregnancy. Like mother f’er I didn’t kill myself no matter how heart broken I was that he didn’t want anything to do with me and my son. I was strong. I cried a lot back then but I got over him and was ok after. Sure I felt rotten inside and it took me like a year and a half to get over him but I did it! Why is it that people preach what they want but cannot handle things in their own lives? Like don’t call me or other women weak for continuing to go on and live for themselves and for their children. I understand heart break hurts like hell but life goes on. I pray things don’t end with my bf now. I’ve been with him for 3 years but if it ends I have to life for myself and my kids not just for him. My life doesn’t revolve around just for a guy. 😤😩 That’s what I wanted to say I guess lol. My son turned 8 yesterday so I’ve been remembering the past. This has been on my mind today.
AJ·
I forgot to mention for example when a lot of the female friends I had at the time told me to get an abortion and their solution was find another guy to go out with. I was like first of all I don’t even want to think about another guy at the time and my thing was I wanted to focus on having my son and I couldn’t wait till I had him in my arms. I fought so hard to have my son. It’s crazy that people’s solution is basically kill the kid but find another man because that solves everything. I’ve had my heart broken and healed but if I listened to them and got rid of my son I wouldn’t have been mentally well. That probably could have been a reason for me to off myself. So what kind of advice was that? Smh.