Finally lost my cool tonight. My MIL can suck ass because I'm done with her evil, manipulative shi*! Emailed my husband what psychotic crap she was trying to pull yesterday and I think he really gave her a good talking to. Lol no more worries about rent though, cuz she's paying regardless, it was HER IDEA, HER PROMISE TO MY HUSBAND. I DONT CARE AND IM FINISHED BEING GUILT TRIPPED!!!!
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I hope you’re saving all these messages to show him eventually. You are a saint for sticking through all this. She can kick rocks.
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Lol thank you. She really is a cruel witch. I'm done being treated like that!
I even posted a mean post about kushqueen lol I was tired of her negative comments on everyone's posts & just went wild last night lol
Girl, don't let these folks bring the thug out of u no more lol we trying to be good . At least that's what I tell myself lol
@vicky810 haha yeah, for sure. Im gonna try not to slip up again.
@lifewithlynnieandwill88 good🙏🏽🙏🏽😏🙌🏾
U know out of 3 years since we've been on here I've never seen a cuss words being typed on your status . I see u fiery mad . But it will be just fine 😊
Yeah, I Kno. I don't cuss but last night I was very upset!!!
@lifewithlynnieandwill88 I understand that .
She is completely unreasonable and ridiculous. How sad for him? HIM?! Yes I’m sure it’s rough being in jail but what about what YOU are going through because of HIS poor choices. Barely making ends meet and doing whatever you can to make sure your babies are taken care of. Is she mad at her son at all for what he’s done? Why is she putting everything on you as if this is all your fault? You’ve been nothing but patient with her. She deserves to get her ass chewed out for the way she’s been treating you. And like buns said this was mild so don’t even feel bad. I would have lost my cool with her a long time ago and it wouldn’t have been as nice as this.
Exactly. Feels sorry for him, no sympathy for me or the kids. She's ignorent. I suppose she was upset with him at one point but I think she's more focused on keeping him happy and content at this point. I did try to be nice but I know this pissed her off because she hasn't responded lol
@lifewithlynnieandwill88, Lol, she’s truly delusional if she thinks you’re in the wrong for not driving 3 hrs when your kids are sick. I used to visit my brother in jail 2hrs away. It’s not easy. It’s not like you always go right in when you get there. Sometimes you wait. And not just that but the emotional toll it takes on you seeing a loved one in prison. My day would be ruined after I visited him. So yeah don’t let her make you feel guilty, you’re doing the best you can
@missrinaa well it's an hour in a half drive but the kids have to sit the car the hour I'm there and then the drive home, so that's a lot on them..I'm gonna try to get my granny to take us next weekend so I can talk to him about everything..
Sending love because I'm living it. oxooxoo pm if u want Wenever .. have a beautiful night .
Oh lord. Going through the same shit.. pm if u want... fucxk crazies .. crazy ass moms out there .my hubby got one. Foreal. I been through hell n bal with my mil. Bitch still won't change.i been wit my man for 2 years and got 2 kids.. she just won't let go of her control and foul mouth and with her trying to guilt me for everything. Always crying to her son. Fuk my mil. Lol. I'm sorry. I love her bitch ass from a distance .a distance!!! I hope u ok. Hang in there. You love your man and dont let nothing get in between yall. Trust me!!!!!!!!!! I been here! I know.
Thank you so much!! Ive been through a lot with her. These people commenting about how it's not her responsibility to pay my rent or buy my kids diapers don't know what the hell they're are talking about. They begged me to stay here instead of move in with my grandparents, they promised to help. It is most definitely their responsibility now. They've never helped me with anything but rent. There son put me in this situation & they are lucky I'm still here. Lol I love my hubby but I'm struggling to make it and he told me his parents would help in anyway they could. I don't depend on them for nothing but half the rent, that was an agreement from the beginning but any normal grandparent would ask if the kids needed anything ya know? They don't care about us, only my husband & Ive had enough.
1. Well done!
2. Block her ASAP
3. Is it wrong that i kind of want to know how your husband yelled at her?! Lol
Lol thanks! I'm not sure what was said, and I won't know until I go visit him again. He can't email me back. All he can do is get the emails I send. He can't call me because I don't have a landline. I'm gonna try to go visit him next Saturday...
She is SUCH a HORRENDOUS bitch! Man I wish I could catch her leavin the grocery store!!! Idk HOW you don't throat punch that cunt! I HATE the C-word so she's REAL bad for me to bring it out!
Lol I've pushed her down before, back in the day. Haha
Good for you 👍 it's about time you told her off , she sounds like a bitch
It’s about damn time girl, you should of told her to fuck off a long time ago lol. If she responds to you in anyway ignore the bitch. Don’t even respond to her sorry evil ass. You got better things to do then to respond to selfish people
My family is nothing like them so I'm not use to that type of manipulation. Normal family help during times of need. It's what family does..
Not to sound like a bitch but why does she have to pay rent promiss or not i will be honest if i argue with someone i dont like well she can deal with her shit..! So why does she pay??
She pays HALF OF MY rent because she wants my husband to have a home when he gets out. Definitely not for my kids or I, obviously. If she didn't agree to it I'd already be gone. So your saying you wouldn't help your son's wife and grandkids keep their home while YOUR son was locked up and when YOU PROMISED YOUR SON they'd pay half in order for us to have a home of our own?
@lifewithlynnieandwill88, ok yes that's totally different i would definitely help out...! Shes a total bitch i wouldn't be able to stand that woman i would probably end up living the husband ( not hid fault) just cause shes to much
Wow. I’m at a loss for words. 🤦🏻♀️ How much longer does he have left? You may have told me but my oatmeal brain lost that info already. 😅 If I were you, I’d lose all contact with her once he’s out. But I’m petty 🤷🏻♀️
Two months! I'm definitely thinking about blocking her, I can't take her anymore.
That’s good girl because she needed to hear it! Has she responded? It’s the truth like hello don’t you care about your own grandkids? What a witch!
@lifewithlynnieandwill88, she will get over it! I know how hard it is with kids to drive even 20 mins across town with my two little ones much less an hour and a half. Good thing your husband is understanding don’t let em get to you mama!
@preciouslove I'm not. I'm going to visit my hubby maybe next weekend and talk to him more about it. Right now all I can do is email him, he can't email back either!!!
Good for you!! I can’t imagine the amount of stress you’ve been under and then to add this to the mix.
You are so incredibly strong!!!
Thank you! I'm definitely trying to stay strong, its hard & I'm a sensitive person and get my feelings hurt easy but I'm definitely not taking it anymore
Ugh she’s nasty she’s lucky she has you as a DIL cause I would have went off on her years ago you don’t deserve to be treated like that
Thanks girl. I have been very nice and I planned to keep it civil between us but this was the last straw, she's not making me feel guilty anymore. I'm tired of it. She caught me on a bad day.
She is a real piece of work! I think you were very reserved. I’m curious what she’s going to say.
She has said absolutely nothing. I hope she feels like crap now, I don't even care anymore.
@lifewithlynnieandwill88, She’s so messed up in the head, she probably twisted to make it your fault. She’s crazy!
I'm gonna be devils advocate here and im sorry. Even if she promised to pay rent find another way..she will always hold it over your head and it isnt really her responsibility to pay it unless she lives with you.
Its hard. And sucks but try and find another way and cut the toxicity out of yours and your kids lives.
It is her responsibility because when I was about to move her and her husband offered to pay half until my husband gets out. So unless u know the full story I don't need your input. All these other women know what was promised & said or I would have moved 4 months ago. I don't play devil's advocate here, it's only toxic if she kept doing this. This is HER GRANDKIDS, she promised her son to help. Period. She's not gonna tell me one thing then come up with rules in order for them to keep paying their measly $400 a month when they said they'd help any way they needed to. This is all they help me with. It is toxic but I'm dealing with it until my husband gets out because I am not moving on my own unless I absolutely have to or I would have 4 months ago so I could save my hard earned money. I didn't want to put my kids through another move. I'm not in the mood for anyone picking her side IF YOU HAVE NO CLUE WHATS GOING ON.
@lifewithlynnieandwill88 your right I don't. But still not her responsibility no matter what she promised. Being an adult.is not holding your breath even when people promise and not letting people hold shit over your head
I had my in laws promise plenty of shit still dont hold my breath. My mil.stole 15000 of my husbands money. When she got caught she promised to pay it back. Didnt hold my breath, 12 years later havent seen a dime.
@no062014 well, prior to all of this, I was left with nothing, all my husband's money was with him, the jail wouldn't release it to me. I had no job. I got a part time job and they said they'd help in any way they could. Then all of a sudden started with this crap of not helping unless I go visit him. Most parents help there kids, regardless. My grandparents helped each of their kids during different situations in their lives. Its what family does. I'm not use to price of crap family. My dad would give me his last dollar, same with my mom. It's just not right what they try to do, I won't have anything held over my head again though, trust me!
GOOD FOR YOU. I’m so proud. And yes, she can suck it.
I would have been like good I wouldn’t want my kids around a manipulative pos like you go shove your money up your ass till you choke you psychotic bitch get off your high horse ...you need Jesus 😂
ABOUT TIME!!!! ☺ I'm happy for you and hope you can sleep as good as you can with sick babies knowing your rent will be paid and no guilt to come with it!!
Wow. You have an insane about of patience. I could not handle someone being just so plain cruel the way you did. If she agreed to help with your rent then she should not hold that over your head if you aren't able to visit because your kid is sick. I couldn't imagine doing something like that to my own grandkids.
That woman is a straight up asshole. I always cringe seeing your conversations with her. I mean, okay... your son is in jail. It sucks. But come on...you’re there with 2 kiddos by yourself right now. So who truly has it worse? Because it sure as hell, is not her. If you can’t visit because of sick kids, or simply... because you don’t want to, that is NOT her business. You go girl! That lady is crazy! Holding rent over your head? She can go fuck herself. I don’t know what happened with your husband, why he is in jail, but I sure would be feeling very empathic for my daughter in law and my grand babies, and not trying to make their lives any harder than it needs to be.
Girl if this is you losing your cool.... I don’t know what to say. But it’s mild, honorable and you don’t owe them any explanation. I’m sitting over here having a hard time w my very loving and helpful in-laws so I can understand you beating yourself up over all this. You DO NOT NEED THEIR APPROVAL ANYMORE. Love you girl, you take care of your kids and yourself. You are amazing. Don’t let this snaggle tooth ugly woman steal your joy or make you feel like you’re doing something wrong. Last time I checked, your husband is the one who broke the law and is in jail for whatever reason. YOU did nothing wrong and are just being supportive
@bodybycheetos, don’t you picture her all snaggle toothy after all those ugly words are flying out of her mouth? Lol
And I agree make sure you save all messages from her.
🙌🙌 glad you put her in her place! She can’t be mad you don’t wanna travel 3+ hours to go to a jail with 2 young kids especially if your husband is telling you not to and that he understands
It’s nice they are helping with rent but just seems like they didn’t do it to be nice she did it to control you while he husband is gone 😩
Dude honestly you still kept it civil that woman is flat out evil. She is so self absorbed and inconsiderate you said everything you needed to in a good way! Your husband knows you have a lot to deal with and it’s not easy for you to get to him. Fuck that woman id cut ties as much as you can and then when your man gets out definitely show him all that if you haven’t already. That’s so messed.
It's about time you stand up for yourself, even just a little bit. This old bitch needs to quit holding money over your head if she knows what's good for her. What's stopping you from telling her to fuck herself and never having contact again? (Not an actual question, I know why you stay) is she not concerned about that at all? She loves this control. Did you block her from calling earlier or were you blocked?
I'm not sure, I called her home phone and she was nice then evidently my husband called her shortly after and I'm assuming jumped her ass because then I got that message about him getting my email lol I was gonna try to go just to keep the peace but I'm so glad he called and griped her selfish butt out.
I hope you’re saving all these messages to show him eventually. You are a saint for sticking through all this. She can kick rocks.
Oh, I am. Karma's a bit** and that's probably why she's slowly dying from liver and heart problems...
She is SUCH a bitch. She has been way out of line this whole time!
You ain't lying. I can only be nice for so long before I flip my wig & I have been known for my craziness, she's lucky I haven't lost my cool.
You are so nice.
I couldn’t imagine my mil speaking to me like this.
She didn’t even ask how he was feeling, wth!
You need to cut ties completely.
If she’s going to act like a child, then that’s that.
And she needs to learn the difference between than and then.
She's ignorent as hell. Selfish and inconsiderate. I'm just glad she's not calling or inviting us for visits anymore whhhooooooo hoop💁 she's a 🤡
You go girl! You were WAY nicer than I would have been.
Lol I tried to not go completely off but I couldn't not say anything because I'm tired of her demonic controlling manipulative spirit coming against me when I don't do what she wants. I have punched her and pushed her to the ground before but that was the old me, new me tries to stay peaceful & passive but she struck a nerve today
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
It's about time you stand up for yourself, even just a little bit. This old bitch needs to quit holding money over your head if she knows what's good for her. What's stopping you from telling her to fuck herself and never having contact again? (Not an actual question, I know why you stay) is she not concerned about that at all? She loves this control. Did you block her from calling earlier or were you blocked?