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Amber Jacq
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I was mom shamed today for breastfeeding my 4 month old, I was wearing a breastfeeding cover, my cardigan, and a tank…

I was mom shamed today for breastfeeding my 4 month old, I was wearing a breastfeeding cover, my cardigan, and a tank top underneath my shirt so no skin whatsoever was showing, and 3 women who are also mothers were glaring at me and were talking about me to eachother right in front of me, and then when I didn't stop breastfeeding my son all 3 of them walked away rolling their eyes glaring at me. If I wasn't breastfeeding I would have gotten up and told those 3 women to kiss my a* because I'm doing what I am supposed to be doing as a parent and that's making sure my child is fed. I swear people nowadays especially other parents need to make up their minds because women who formula feed get mom shamed too (I've done both formula and breast for both my son's and have been shamed for both) and it's like we can't win either way because someone always has something negative to say. Is it so hard to mind your own business and focus on your own kids instead of worrying about how someone else chooses to feed their child? As long as someone isn't abusing their child then people need to mind their own business because weather or not I choose to breastfeed or bottle feed my child isn't anyone else's business.

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kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘Мама троих детей

Flip the bitches off ask them straight up u want a picture bitch don’t hate 🤣👌🏼most bitches are just mad they don’t have the balls or patience don’t let it get you down I’ve been doin it 4 yrs I wish a bitch would say something smart 💯😂

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама двоих (младенец)

Lol if they had approached me and said something directly to me I would've went off, they would of gotten educated on breastfeeding and possibly slapped in the face. 😂😂

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allyzmommyxlw

AllyМама четверых детей, беременна

I hated the nasty glares. But one time, i was outside sitting in the back seat of my car, door slightly cracked, and a women who was getting into her car next to me saw and goes " yay for you! Your baby is lucky! " it made my day. She apologized right after for being nosey as she passed, but i told her it was okay and thanked her bc it really made me feel so amazing

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allyzmommyxlw

AllyМама четверых детей, беременна

@mamaxkat89 yea. I put mine in a food coma lol he didnt want to wake up for anything.

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del_1616542376_mamakat89

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@mom.zombie-xl i remember my youngest was cluster feeding the first night. Lol when i finally got him to sleep the nurse came in and i yelled at her. I felt bad because i was exhausted lol

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allyzmommyxlw

AllyМама четверых детей, беременна

@mamaxkat89 it is an amazing bond. Liam came out sucking his fingers so i immediately had him latch. And he put up no fight, no struggle. Latched and ate for a while. Before they even weighed him lol the nurses were shocked.

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allyzmommyxlw

AllyМама четверых детей, беременна

@amberdaugherty im not against formula either. But for X it was soooo hard finding the right one for him

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del_1616542376_mamakat89

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@mom.zombie-xl i breastfed my oldest till he was almost 2 as well. I hope i can do the same with this one

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама двоих (младенец)

@mom.zombie-xl Yeah with my oldest I breastfed for a little over 2 months because unfortunately my milk dried up so I was forced to switch to formula, I'm not against formula I just would've liked to breastfeed my oldest son longer than I did so i was very upset when my milk dried up out of nowhere. Thankfully with my youngest I've gotten blessed to breastfeed for this long and I got to celebrate national breastfeeding week with the rest of the breastfeeding moms this year. 😊

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allyzmommyxlw

AllyМама четверых детей, беременна

@mamaxkat89 it really is a blessing to be able to feed our children fron our own bodies. We knows what goes into our milk. I didnt know anything about it till i was pregnant with Liam. So i only breastfed my first for about 3 months before switching to formula. But with Liam, he was breastfed up until he was almost 2. I only stopped because of work and switch tp pumping

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама двоих (младенец)

There needs to be more people like her in the world I wish she would of been there with me today lol! I can't stand the glares either it's really aggravating.

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del_1616542376_mamakat89

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That's awesome! I also love seeing breastfeeding mothers. It's a beautiful gift

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emmamarch16th

EmmaМама двоих (младенец)

Oh wow, that really is disgusting of them ! What horrible, bitter people

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама двоих (младенец)

Right, they're probably bored with their own lives so they have to talk about someone else to make themselves feel better.

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emmamarch16th

EmmaМама двоих (младенец)

@amberdaugherty, exactly that, you’ve got to feel sorry for them really. It’s just so idiotic to think there’s anything wrong with breast feeding, I find it difficult to believe how such dumb people can survive day to day life 🤦🏼‍♀️

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prettynnpink

Loyanna HunterМама троих детей

I would of pulled my tit out 😂😂😂 Hey do you want a sip 🗣

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама двоих (младенец)

@thiefofthedarkunicornsworld @momofoneboy @cheetahgurl420 @mom.zombie-xl @mommyof1beauty @mamaxkat89 @madness_returnz @mamaof2soon

It was these 3 women, the one wearing the dress was on her tip toes trying to stare at me while they were talking about me lol, I snapped a picture because I am currently talking to my husband about it, he agrees that they can kiss my a* 😂

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del_1616542376_mamakat89

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@amberdaugherty yeah that's Karen lol

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del_1616542376_mamakat89

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@amberdaugherty

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама двоих (младенец)

@mamaxkat89 Lol 😂 oh my gosh!

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dankerson

LiloМама дочки (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)

I'm glad I never got dirty looks in public. All the comments and stares were from family and family friends

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама двоих (младенец)

That's good you never got dirty looks in public, and I'm sorry that your family is like that.

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mamaof2soon

Leopard Мама двоих (младенец)

Are you sure they wear talking about the breast feeding ?? Not to be funny but I was our one day nursing my daughter and I had went to the bathroom I didn’t realiE i had paper coming out the front of my pants and multiple looked at like I was crazy I got upset until some old lady said “ darling you have paper coming from you

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама двоих (младенец)

No, we were all underneath a tent and they weren't looking at me until I took my 4 month old out of his stroller and put my breastfeeding cover on to feed him. They made it very obvious that they were staring and talking about me because 1 of the 3 women got on her tip toes and was trying to look around my husband's cousin's head to see if I had my boob out which I didn't because I was completely covered up with my cardigan, my shirt, my tank top, and my breastfeeding cover. I looked at myself and I had nothing hanging from me, nothing on my clothes, and my hair wasn't in a mess because I had just fixed it and pulled it back so my hair wouldn't tickle my sons face or be in the way while I was breastfeeding, and plus they were making hateful looks, and they weren't very far from me at all so it was very clear that they were talking about me breastfeeding my son because we all had been sitting there for about 30 to 40 minutes before I started breastfeeding my son, and they hadn't looked at me once before hand. They were also sitting at the table right next to ours before they decided to stand up and watch their kids while they played and they hadn't looked at me once the entire time they were sitting next to us or standing up until I started feeding my son.

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momoftwoboy

Ray Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

Next time someone stares ask if they want some. Normal shocks them and they will walk away

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама двоих (младенец)

😂😂😂 Oh my goodness! They'd probably think I'm crazy.

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momoftwoboy

Ray Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

@amberdaugherty, they are crazy for staring.

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momoftwoboy

Ray Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

@momofoneboy, you heifers hungry to.

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kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘Мама троих детей

Flip the bitches off ask them straight up u want a picture bitch don’t hate 🤣👌🏼most bitches are just mad they don’t have the balls or patience don’t let it get you down I’ve been doin it 4 yrs I wish a bitch would say something smart 💯😂

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама двоих (младенец)

Lol if they had approached me and said something directly to me I would've went off, they would of gotten educated on breastfeeding and possibly slapped in the face. 😂😂

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allyzmommyxlw

AllyМама четверых детей, беременна

I hated the nasty glares. But one time, i was outside sitting in the back seat of my car, door slightly cracked, and a women who was getting into her car next to me saw and goes " yay for you! Your baby is lucky! " it made my day. She apologized right after for being nosey as she passed, but i told her it was okay and thanked her bc it really made me feel so amazing

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allyzmommyxlw

AllyМама четверых детей, беременна

@mamaxkat89 it is an amazing bond. Liam came out sucking his fingers so i immediately had him latch. And he put up no fight, no struggle. Latched and ate for a while. Before they even weighed him lol the nurses were shocked.

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del_1616542376_mamakat89

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@mom.zombie-xl i remember my youngest was cluster feeding the first night. Lol when i finally got him to sleep the nurse came in and i yelled at her. I felt bad because i was exhausted lol

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allyzmommyxlw

AllyМама четверых детей, беременна

@mamaxkat89 yea. I put mine in a food coma lol he didnt want to wake up for anything.

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mommyof1beauty

ShaylaМама дочки (1 год)

Totally agree. I started out breastfeeding and ended up having to formula feed. I was judged either way as well. When breastfeeding, everyone said I was making my daughter gassy with my milk. Then I formula feed and get so many questions about me not breastfeeding and my daughter was still gassy on formula 😒.. WHATEVER! But yes as long as a child is happy and being taken care of then that’s all that matters. I told a girl on this app that exact same thing because she wanted to jump down my throat for letting my daughter try a lemon for her reaction. There are literally people harming and abusing their kids and you want to play police because i want my daughter to taste a lemon 😒. Doesn’t matter what we do, don’t do, or how great of mothers we may be, Someone is always going to judge 🤷🏽‍♀️

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mommyof1beauty

ShaylaМама дочки (1 год)

@amberdaugherty, My daughter’s pediatrician said the same thing that some babies are just gassy.. But nooooo I had to let other people’s opinion weigh in because they made me feel so horrible. I stopped eating everything, chocolate, dairy, greasy foods, gassy veggies and my baby was still gassy. So I tried to formula feed her for two days just to make sure it wasn’t my milk. And she was still gassy and guess what, my supply depleted 😩🤦🏽‍♀️. So she had to be formula fed from then on 😢. So my advice is to definitely not listen to anyone or let anyone make you feel bad for anything you do for the betterment of your children because it’s clear they don’t know 💩😒 about YOUR CHILD!

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама двоих (младенец)

@mommyof1beauty Yes exactly some people have no clue what they're even talking about, I'm learning to not listen to anyone about my kids because they're my kids not theirs. Half the people who say negative things to me don't even know my kids well, they don't come visit, they don't bother to call or text to ask me how they are so 90% of people who say negative and irrelevant things to me about my kids haven't a clue of what they're talking about. People are so dumb nowadays.

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mommyof1beauty

ShaylaМама дочки (1 год)

@amberdaugherty, Absolutely! People care when they want to care. So I don’t care at all anymore. Do you girl!

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del_1616542376_mamakat89

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Thoses women are horrible! I breastfed in public. Did the same too! If they stare let them stare. My baby needs to eat

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама двоих (младенец)

Exactly what I told my family members, I said my baby has to eat and I'm not about to go to a nasty public bathroom or a hot car to feed my son. My family members were like they can kiss your a* if they have a problem with it.

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