So apparently most of yall don't know how to read... I said that we both know the risks of having sex this early. Also I never said anything about "special soap" that protects you from getting an infection. I said we use a good, non dye, non scented soap that we got from the hospital that surgeons use before they perform surgery... not because it prevents an infection, but because it makes sure that we are both very clean.
So, once again for the people who have a problem understanding that I'm an adult and can and will do as I please... I know and understand the risks of what I'm doing. I know and understand that most of yall are on this app just to criticize and fuss at other mothers for not doing things your way... I also know that I have plenty of people I can and probably will piss off because I'm going to do what I want and say what I want. So unless someone wants to come here and pay my bills and take care of me like I'm their child, nothing is going to change....
Also, just because I say I did something doesn't mean I'm telling others to do the same. If anyone takes it as such then that's on them! Thanks for trying though!
Bless yalls hearts and have a great day!
I don’t personally care if you want to risk an infection. It’s your bits and pieces.
Also doesn't matter how clean his dick is. It could be the cleanest dick ever and still give you an infection.
I mean don't come bitching if you get an infection. Scratch that, don't bitch at all if you get an infection.
1st: I can read and comprehend what I have read
2nd: I'm not criticizing you for not doing things "my way" Like I said in my previous comment. Go ahead and do what you want.
3rd: I'm legitimately worried about your health and wanted to make sure you really do know the risks.
Which is why I asked you if you would allow your man to ejaculate into an open wound on your leg. Because your uterus still has a wound the size of a plate for goodness sake. Just because you can't see the inside of your uterus doesn't mean that there isn't a wound. (Still waiting for an answer to that question by the way)
A lot of people say they understand, but really have no idea how horrible and life threatening going septic can be.
I just think it would be horrible if you were to get sick and not be able to take care of yourself, or your kids or pay your bills (because you're right I'm not interested in being your benefactor)
4th: If you don't want other people's opinions, please refrain from making posts about your reckless and potentially life threatening choices.
I don’t even truly understand how bad going septic is. However I’m not about to risk it. I rather not ever actually know what it’s like and just know with my common sense that it’s horrible and I don’t want it to happen. And the last thing I want is anything up my vagina after a baby comes out of my body in any kind of way lol I didn’t use toilet well after I was cleared 🤣🤣 I used that water bottle and 💩 was a whole different battle lmao.
I mean, you do you. Still not advised and your risk of getting pregnant is just as high as an “infection.” Which by the way, is 100% not advised if you’ve had a c-section. But it’s your life. 🤷♀️
I would have kept 'The amazing shower sex' to yourself you should have known you'd get backlash. 😂
Why’d you even feel the need to post about it? Oh yeah because you knew it’d get you attention. 🙄
😂😂😂 why keep making posts though? Just say something on the original post. Do what you want baby girl, we just think you’re stupid for the dumb ass decision you’re making and we wanted to let you know. 🤷🏽♀️
Girl chill out!! Enjoy your newborn let yourself heal plenty of time to get your leg over 🤦🏼♀️🤣🤦🏼♀️
Honestly, I don't think think it's about "their way".... it's about safety. But you clearly don't care about yours so rock on with your bad self. I just hope you have a good support system in place if you do end up in the hospital. As someone mentioned going septic is no joke. Nor is ripping your incision back open and having internal bleeding because you pushed yourself too soon. Just seems silly and we're all baffled. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Fr. Ik someone that went septic and about died and it was over a tooth he said it was the worst thing ever he almost died!
@monkeysmommax2 same. I honestly dont know how I've been pregnant twice since my oldest. Everything is wrong with me. My head is gonna hurt tomorrow and I'm starting to feel it already 😂
Why’d you even feel the need to post about it? Oh yeah because you knew it’d get you attention. 🙄