How can I be someone’s peace when he’s starting to not even be my peace anymore 🤔🤔 he don’t communicate with me and his…
How can I be someone’s peace when he’s starting to not even be my peace anymore 🤔🤔 he don’t communicate with me and his shoulders to Lean on are his video games and “smoking” and being around other people than me! He still saying to me that being a “mother” isn’t a job. Why haven’t I and why can’t I give up on him!? I’m drained and hurt and yet here I am still staying, still hoping, still praying. Nothing. I’m already trying to do so much for us because we are struggling I’ve been going to food pantry’s and clothes closets and I clean house, I cook, I take care of the kids on a daily , I take the kids to their appointments even though my car stays running hot and we don’t have the money to fix it and no one is willing to help not even your side of the family. How is being a “mother” not a full time job!? Am I not enough am I useless?? I love my husband y’all but he does the most!! Than says I do the most!!
Corinne·
Does he work mama? He is supposed to put you and his kids before everything. Your beautiful, you and those babys deserve the best of the best ot at least the best you can get. I don't have the best of the best but it's the best we can can have with our income. I live in a 2 bedroom 1 bathroom with all us, but no one goes with out, we got 2 new cars and a mini van, we bust our asses to get what we have, even working every Saturday to make that extra money. He has to communicate with you, do riding as one. It makes your marriage stronger.
Megan Reid··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yes he works his ass off and I tell him I’m proud of him for that and for what he does. But to sit there and not communicate with me and to tell me that being a full time mom is not a job is bull
Corinne··
it is hard work, especially with a newborn. My husband sees my life, I worked fulltime and when I got off I still came home and I didnt get a rest until like 130am where I was finally able to take time for myself and shower then eat. On top of that my job didnt reappoint me so as of July 1st I am a full time stay at home mom at 8 months pregnant, got a bout to be 4yr old , about to be 3 yr old, a 1 yr old, a 8 yr old stepdaughter whom throws tantrums for over a hr traching my house and a very ill bed bound mother whom I care give for 24.7 its SOOOOOOOO HARD HAVING THIS TUMMY AND never getting time to myself. Its like I never get to sit down between the kids and my moms meds, changes and needs. I feel like I am getting pulled in different directions. As you said dr appointments for me mom and all the kids, shopping. Its hard and like I feel like I work harder now.
Your husband needs to see and appreciate you and all you do.